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im a brazilian male ridder new to this community. Does anyone know any lifter that likes to be treated as beast of burden? i enjoy ridding with whip, spurs and reins.
If you are looking for a perfect fit to your desires from the start, you will probably be disappointed.
A carrier or masochistic type will also likely have specific desires that will most often not be a perfect match to yours.
You should look for an agreeable carrier who will consent or desires a rider who wears spurs and uses equestrian tack and you should use these items sparingly . The actions or your carrier will tell you if you are using enough force.
The relative positions of the rider and carrier implies your control of the carrier. You are sitting on him and obviously burdening him as you control his direction, pace and the duration of his service.
But this doesn't in itself indicate that his perception of the experience is the mirror of your's.
Whatever enjoyment you derive from riding him is entirely in your mind and the same is true for your carrier. You may find carriers who will obey you completely while you are sitting on him, but not submit otherwise and may consider himself your equal when you are not on top of him.
The only way to find the nearest fit to Your perfect carrier is to experiment with a number of potential carriers. Promises made by any given carrier are often sincere to some degree but far to often prove to be far short in actual practice.
You may find carriers who can't perform or even lift you, or can only carry for short distances.
If you can find another rider or a group , you will have a much better chance of finding the kind of carrier you want through networking with other riders.