Ultimate shoulder rides

We sometimes forget when we fantasise over giving rides be it on all fours or on shoulders as to just how physically demanding it can be.
Crawling around on all fours with a rider on your back is particularly painfull on the knees
I know  this from experience. May I suggest a method that I use for this type of riding. Rather than trying to crawl around the floor asume a position on all fours on a coffee table or bench now get your rider to mount the small of your back his/her legs hanging free and off the floor, you can now begin to rock back and forth, you rider can encourage you by swinging their legs or jerking their hips in time with your rocking motion. of course you will still tire but it will be easier on your knees

Trigger I like both, I love to be shoulder ridden by females only! of any age  shape or size.
I also enjoy riding males as long as they are smaller and weaker than me. I love to feel them struggling under my 87kg I like to make them work hard for me. I also enjoy riding small  animals such as Donkeys or ponys. Like member LOVETORIDE I also like to use stirrups, standing in them briefly,knowing that my mount is feeling the discomfort of the leather straps cutting into their back or neck.
You ask if I am ever ridden by my wife/partner, I,m afraid not she just isn,t into that kind of thing
so like most members here my rides are far and few unfortunatly.

Hmmm...No issues..frd...
and i have mailed u..in detaill...chk it plz

lovetoride wrote:

Thanks Trigger for giving me all four rides (which is my favorite among all rides, and I have already mentioned that in some other post) for the longest duration till date, in my life.

Thanks for Donkey Calf ride too (but I have sat that way for longer duration on my girlfriend).

Secondly thanks to the administrators for making this site which made this possible

Thirdly thanks to the wishes of Ali2121, Reeves and Equidum for there best wishes.


Yes, the boring part was that, most of your concentration was on your knees. But I can imagine the enormous pain that you were experiencing and really appreciate that you still didn’t give up very soon and tried to satisfy me.

Yes I have to admit that you were not strong enough up to my expectations, as per your weight. But I would confess that I couldn’t have even walked around on my all four on that surface for 10 rounds simply, forget about carrying someone, whereas you have done that with me, sitting on your back.

After doing so much, there is no need to apologize for anything, though shoulder ride would have added to my experience.

I am really happy that my idea of wrapping the towel worked to some extent. Hope your knee don’t pain much now.

I may post my experience on this as a rider some other time.

But I have no words to thank you for giving me wonderful rides that was longest of my life.

Even ‘Thank you very much’ are underrated words for the rides that you have given me.

Nice to hear that at least a few of our members has actually met in person.

No shoulder rides then? Just on all 4s and donkey rides?

Having just returned from Christmas holidays,it is a pleasure to read that two members have met-and had rides! Its such a shame that you couldnt have had some short shoulder rides while you were together!
Anyway,well done Trigger and Lovetoride! Now I hope some more of your fellow countrymen(and women!) will be encouraged to meet and share their experiences on this site.Well done!

I find the idea of a groom riding on his friend's shoulders to the marriage ceremony fascinating,Lovetoride! Speaking as a church organist here in England,it doesnt take place to my knowledge.But what a good idea!With several weddings lined up for next year,I could offer my services as well as the music side of things! I would obviously need to increase my fee,though!
Good luck with your future riding-shame I cant visit your fine country next year-maybe year after-if Im still alive!

Hi Sir...

You pointed it right ...

To be in touch with male thighs ard my shoulders..is wht i am not comfy wid...
dont know how many feels the same.
but yes on all 4s..its more feeling of a horse..

equidum wrote:

Thanks, Trigger and Lovetoride ! And congratulations for your determination to meet and ride.

I was very interested by Trigger's mitigated reaction to being a male's horse ... I also believe that I would like to carry a male, although I am totally straight, but, in fact, I'm not sure ... I never did it ! I think that, like Trigger, I would dislike the contact of male thighs on my back/neck, but, on the other hand, being submitted to a male might add a lot to the masochist dimension of the ride ....

It is just a speculation, though ...

To me, finding one's pleasure in the pain inflicted to others, and especially for one's pleasure, is a clear mark of sadism. Nothing wrong with sadism, btw ! Actually, I think that 50% of mankind are sadistic, at different levels, ranging from hardly sadistic to very heavily sadistic. Likewise, the other 50% would be on the maso side. As regards shoulder ride, I tend to believe that those who love to ride are usually sadistic, those who love to be ridden are certainly maso.   

To your point, the greater the pain/humiliation you inflict, the greater your pleasure. The poor girl, or the weak guy will suffer a lot more from your riding than a strong rugby player for instance ... So, you may prefer to ride weaklings or females .... Cherry on the icing, if you ride a female, you may expect further sexual services, hence even more pleasure, probably 10 times more, as per your own estimate ...

The masochist "horse" will also enjoy 10 times more pleasure if ridden by a Female, I suppose. But that masochist's pleasure mainly resides in his pain/humiliation, and these might be 10 times greater if inflicted by a male ...

But, as I said, all this is pure speculation

Hi Equidum

Yes , this is what I wanted to say. But I said it in a less conceivable manner in rider’s perspective and you said it in a more conceivable manner in a carrier’s perspective. Thanks!


Now regarding whether I am sadist.

I don’t agree with you fully regarding your postulate that if you are a person living on this planet, you are either sadist or masochist and only point of difference is the intensity. But since I believe you to be a reliable source, I won’t argue on that.

I find pleasure by the exertion and exploitation of the other and not by the pain inflicted.

And secondly my weight should be directly involved in it
or otherwise I should get pleasured by that act directly in some way.

And I can’t force anybody to do it. I want them to do it willingly. If I know they like to be forced, only then I would feel comfortable to force them.

If there is no word in English to describe this type of nature, I admit that I am a sadist.

I would appreciate, if you have anything to say about this.

lovetoride wrote:

Hi Equidum

Yes , this is what I wanted to say. But I said it in a less conceivable manner in rider’s perspective and you said it in a more conceivable manner in a carrier’s perspective. Thanks!


Now regarding whether I am sadist.

I don’t agree with you fully regarding your postulate that if you are a person living on this planet, you are either sadist or masochist and only point of difference is the intensity. But since I believe you to be a reliable source, I won’t argue on that.

I find pleasure by the exertion and exploitation of the other and not by the pain inflicted.

And secondly my weight should be directly involved in it
or otherwise I should get pleasured by that act directly in some way.

And I can’t force anybody to do it. I want them to do it willingly. If I know they like to be forced, only then I would feel comfortable to force them.

If there is no word in English to describe this type of nature, I admit that I am a sadist.

I would appreciate, if you have anything to say about this.

Basic charasteritics of any given homogeneous population are usually structured along a "normal distrtibution" pattern, aka a gaussian curve. Analysis of people's sizes, from smallest to tallest, will give us a gaussian curve ... The same for intelligence, from stupid to geniusses etc ... Usually the turning point of that curve splits the studied population between two nearly equal portions, of more or less 50% each. Now, it may be 40/60, or 60/40, but the 50/50 rule is the most frequently observed, I believe. My sole postulate is that, if we had tools to evaluate and measure individual's sadism and masochism < As we have to measure sizes, intelligence ....> we would find that mankind is, quite logically, split into a 50/50 gaussian curve. Now, the words sadism and masochism are a bit emotional, and we often tend to reject them when they are applied to our dear persons .... "Alfa personalities" might be a less emotional wording perhaps, and certainly a more appropriate one to qualify your attitude. And I bet that you'll find those alfa people among riders, rather than among ridees ...   

Now, you say that you will not force anyone to be your horse, except if the horse likes to be forced ... This says to me that you are a correct person, which I had no doubt about. But you can be a decent, correct, very moral person and still be a alfa guy ...  Suffices for that, that you enjoy forcing people to be your horse for example, even if those people enjoy to be forced ! It's the enjoyment, in both these case, that determines who you are, for both the rider and the horse...

But it was just my two poor cents, two weak cents of a weakening Euro ....