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Alright. So this is an old topic. But, let's not dodge this topic that I posted under another topic.
If you some of you who are identified as gals never or seldom participate in discussions or in the posting of videos or pictures then why do you leave email addresses? You gals and others know who you are. I am not naming you because I probably will not hear the end of it if naming you inspires you to delete your names from this website. I do not know if they are real working email addresses. I am not testing them and suspect many of you guys have. I do not feel right about single private friendly, non-professional encounters with unknown women who are not my wife unless my wife and the men of these women know about it. I think you gals are safer dealing with unknown men in an open forum rather than in private.
Why are you reluctant to participate in this open forum? You gals are so few and so precious that almost none of us guys would dare choose to offend you for fear of incurring the wrath of many. In the opinions of you gals, what needs to be done to make you feel comfortable to participate? As I have stated before, you have yet to communicate and we are already listening. As Liz, Equidum, and many others would verify, us guys are the horses of you ladies, not only in that we can be ridden but in that we do not simply just know what you want and do what you want regardless of whether you think we simply should just know. Even an outstanding horse gives a poor performance for the ridress if she fails to effectively communicate her wishes to the horse in a way that a horse can understand and will tolerate. The same for a killer whale or anyother creature.
Would it be easier for you silent gals to communicate through our more communicative ones?
Linda, Hong, Tina, and Linda, this slilence is not about you gals. Thank you so much for participating.
Hong, you, have ignored all my questions for months. You have not participated for a while either. Sorry if I have offended you. If so, how did I? I can not and will not help you if you are only silent.
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Sam I do not know what you are trying to say.
Is it that the majority of our so called female members-even that is debatable-are not saying enough.
Your are right-they are not-but that is up to them-no one can force them to become verbose like some of us,like you I will not name names.
Perhaps it is better to let sleeping jockeys lie.
A think a better point-would to try and make sure that people
know what sex they are and to record it properly..
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You have a right to your opinion and I have a right to mine. I am not trying to force them. It is clear enough that I am just trying to find a way to make it pleasant for them to do so. Forcing gals to do what I, you, or anybody wants is generally a bad idea. I know. I have been married for almost twenty-nine years.
Despite what Taurus communicates, many of us would still like to know how to make more participation by you quiet gals more comfortable. How about it, Ladies?
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Sorry Sam Not long enough=mine is 50 this year.
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Mine is long enough and will most likely be longer. No go back and discuss shoulder riding like Louie Sr. says.
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But if you have stated in the past-this should be done with your partners permission or awareness-then it is relevent
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Yes?
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To be honest it would appear that that the great majority of our female menbers like to talk about the number of horses they have ridden-all well and good-perhaps they have!!.Or maybe it is all wishful thinking-in these cases words tend to speak louder than actions.
How about it ladies?
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