Ultimate shoulder rides

Congratulations Renma on obtaining your bonus membership.

May I make some suggestions to you and Hong both? You can both email me if you are interested. My experiences may help the two of you to avoid some grief. Of course, both of your parents may have been married longer than my twenty-eight years and they may have some different opinions.

I just know that what starts out as much fun often ends up as much trouble if one does not take various precautions.

Best regards,

So ironic. Trigger is free to choose and he chooses to be a human-horse-slave under the brutal whip, bridal, and bit of sadistic women. He is free and yet chooses to be a slave. In some ways I find these women to be disgusting and cruel and him to be self-degrading beyond my understanding but he is apparently happy to be this way. On the other hand, yes, I too have looked at his website, and read that some of these ridresses have helped him out with his financial hardships such that some of these ridresses have elements of kindness and decency.

Do I understand you correctly? In China, people are not free to behave as Trigger and these dominant sadistic women? I have read much, more than twenty years ago,  about the practices of the Communist Government in China. My guess is that the ways of Trigger and of his dominant female riders are seen as some of the evils of capitalism that Chairman Mao Tse Tung would have strongly opposed.

Based on what I have seen on youtube.com it appears that in the Peoples' Republic that lovers, friends, and families may at least give shoulder rides to each other in a loving non-sadistic manner as I would prefer.  In your opinion, is my perception correct?  We are not totally free on this website either and probably should not be to discuss to many politics which may offend some and cause us to lose members and participation. I was taught as a child in school that with "freedom comes responsibility. Your rights end where other peoples rights begin." Of course, all of these concepts are highly subjective.  But, for example, we would not want to allow absolute freedom to anybody to drive a motor vehicle on the highways without regard for the safety of others. In America, you and Hong are free consent to play with each other as you two choose. But hopefully, for the sake of her, you, her family, your family, other people involved with your activities, you would want to exercise this freedom in a responsible manner so that nobody gets hurt at all if possible. "Hurt" and "responsible" of course are also subjective comments.

Do not say never to realizing your dreams. China has changed much since January of 1981 when I saw the elementary school where Sun Yatsen had attended after I entered China from Macao.  Last summer, during the Olympics, I saw on television two female Chinese beach volleyball teams playing each other in sexually revealing bikinis, who would feel so sweet on my shoulders.  Did anybody see if Chinese female athletes at the closing parade were shoulder riding on male athletes during the closing ceremony as was the case with Canadians and other countries' teams? Last I heard, people in China are now free to travel their own country and to visit abroad. Many are college students in California.  Some have immigrated to California and America. I doubt this was the case in 1981. Recently I saw on the internet Chinese astronauts doing a spacewalk in outer space. It was once said that in China history repeats itself, in the West history advances. I have seen evidence that in China, history sometimes advances and in the West history sometimes repeats itself.  For example, we in the West have found that Confucius was right when he said that, "One must first rule himself well before he can rule others well," and "That what one despises in others is what he despises in himself."  In the West, we say "Things come to those that go after them."  I once quoted some beliefs to Hong from my religion that apparently worked for her. She was concerned that she may never find a nice man to shoulder ride on. The quotes were "Seek and you will find." "Ask and you will receive." Which really means, Search for and you may find. Do not search and you will never find. Request and you may receive. Do not request and you will not receive. 

Hong later wrote to us about her shoulder riding experience.

"Best of luck to you, Renman" yong zongwen zenmei shuo? "Again, shoulder ride"
yong zongwen zenmei shuo?" Would you please write them in pinyin and in Chinese character form?  "Chinese character form" yong zongwen zenmei shuo?  For example, in Japanese, the system of Chinese characters that are also used is called, "Kanji."

She she ni, Renma. I will need to find a magnifying glass for my 52 year old eyes.

Until later, tsai chien.