Ultimate shoulder rides

Please do something -  the more females the better. unfortunately I do not have any ideas.

I originally posted my opinions on: 4-14-2007.  Here is a copy.

Where are all the female members?  Well, in general fetishes are male-oriented fantasies and in most cases the woman is participating because she loves the man or is being paid to or otherwise desires to make him happy.

I think in fact some of the "women" we've seen over the years in these groups were actually men posing as women getting their jollies.

Some women (a minority of all women) will sit your shoulders to see better at a concert or a parade, but not as a sexual experience.  And most guys who indulge them at such events consider it a favor or even a burden.

Pool fun is simply that, momentary play that's quickly forgotten by the woman.  But for us fetishists, it's a long, lingering and wonderful memory.

Those who seriously want to live out a lift/carry fantasy can: enroll in a college and take up cheerleading, or if older join a cheerleading all-star squad, or learn to waterski and join a showski team, or become a professional dancer.  It is possible.  When it becomes a vocation like these, it's more like work than play, but the fun is still there underneath.

Last edited by Jeff (2008-08-20 08:17:08)

It's fascinating to see the different viewpoints, and the attempts to second-guess how women think in general.  My own guess is that people, women included, are all individuals, and all different at least to some extent, which is one of the things that makes them interesting.  So I won't attempt to generalize.  I know that there are people for whom domination and even cruelty are important issues, and certainly some women feel reluctant to express their feelings freely. 

Personally, I'm perfectly happy to acknowledge that riding is indeed fun, but also exciting and erotic, and (for me, at least) not at all painful.

I agree with Jeff about cheerleading and show skiing as good ways to guarantee opportunities for shoulder rides.  Trick bicycle or unicycle riding with a partner seems to be another one, although the carrier needs special skills.  I've had the pleasure of riding unicyclists in the park, and it's a treat.  I wonder what other good opportunities there are.  It begins to seem that Chinese television is one of them.    Of course, having a boyfriend, girlfriend, or spouse who loves shoulder rides is possibly the best of all .....

Liz

A woman will only mount on one's shoulders if she wants to and if she feels that something can be gained from her action for her.

Taurus

I apologize to all for my lack of participation in this group. As I explained in earlier posts, I thought I was alone in enjoying this particular activity. Thankfully the existence of this group has confirmed there are others who share my passion.

The following is a repost pertaining to this topic with an addition:

There are many variations on this topic, but my own personal interest is in being ridden by a woman or observing a woman riding either a male or another female. I first became aware of the appeal of this fun activity when, at 11 years old, the 14 year old sister of a friend rode me in the pool. I do not know if it was the experience of having a girl on my shoulders, the fact that she was the perpetrator (it was her idea), or the enthusiasm with which she rode me, but I was hooked from that time. I know it was an intensely pleasurable experience for me and I still remember it vividly after many years.

My own observations are that most females (with certain exceptions) seem to be driven by the circumstances of the moment rather than a long term love of shoulder riding.  I developed some thoughts about each one of these aspects and how it influences the female's experience and why they may be less willing to become members and share experiences.

1. A woman's personal feelings toward her mount seem to be in direct proportion to her pleasure. Lovers, husbands, children, family, and close friends evoke a pleasant response. I remember seriously dating a girl in college who I finally got up enough nerve to ask to carry on my shoulders. The ride took place in the park. She had what I would describe as an almost orgasmic reaction to the ride and made me carry her all the way to the car, which I happily did.

2. Comfort and stability is important. Women need to feel secure in that they will not be dropped. I have had more than one woman be so concerned that she was going to fall that she could not relax and enjoy. Some women can overcome this feeling, others never do. One woman, a tall girl who I wanted to carry for a long time, I asked to help me get something down from a high place. She complied, not once but twice, however she was nervous and shaking the whole time on my shoulders and could not wait to get down. She exclaimed that she never liked being up there even as a child.

3. The occasion often determines the enthusiasm level. Bouncing around on shoulders at a rock concert, rejoicing when your team wins, celebrating good times or a particular achievement, or a pleasant surprise. I posted a story in the old smart groups club regarding how the aunt of a down syndrome young man was given a shoulder ride by him in the pool. Her reaction was one of delight at this young man's happiness.

4. Physical, psychological, and emotional development is also a contributing factor. I have observed that teen and pre-teen girls often get shoulder rides from males or give rides to or get rides from their girl friends and appear to do so with great delight. I can only surmise that the feeling of being astride someone's shoulders and being carried is somewhat stimulating.

5. Domination is another characteristic. One female told me that it was a "real rush" to ride on the shoulders of a shorter, smaller person. The thrill was associated with seeing if this person could lift her.

I hope my contribution is helpful to this discussion.

Is is also possible to get membership upgraded?

Happy riding,

Lindy

Sam

Are you trying to say, that Liz in some of her post's is somewhat repetitive-thats as may be-but have you thought why-perhaps she is trying to drive some sense or skill into our thick skulls.
She seems to me, the expert in riding.
Perhaps we should take more notice.


Taurus.

louie_sr wrote:

Hi and welcome back Lindy!
Nice to hear from you again!
Thanks a lot for your interesting input, same goes to the others and Liz of course, the only female who contributes in discussions.
Keep on sharing your thoughts everyone!

I think you forgot Hong. She writes here once in a while.

Boys, it's not so how you think.

For many women it's not easy to have ride on men's shoulders if your boyfriend don't let you ride or if you are single like I'm. I don't have man on whose shoulders I could ride even I want that very much. It is difficult to find men even you offer him money to get ride.

I think we women like more shoulderriding than men do when women ride and men are our "horses".

If you would ask in the following German forum, you will have hundreds of willing human ponies:

http://www.erotik-kompass.de/foren/03/ 

In tthat forum always human horses are desperately looking for female riders.

Tina -you will have to come to England-you can ride me everywhere and improve your very good English.

Taurus

Mastadon,

my "very good English" is actually ridiculas. Maybe I can write something but to listen or to talk, that is impossible. English speaking people speak so fast and pronounce words so difficult way that I don't understand what they are talking about, also I haven't used my english since I was in school so you get bored very soon. I must think every word little by little, translate text in my mind at first and that takes time.

Riding on you is intresting point to me - shall we need words then?

frederik wrote:

Tina wrote:

Boys, it's not so how you think.

For many women it's not easy to have ride on men's shoulders if your boyfriend don't let you ride or if you are single like I'm. I don't have man on whose shoulders I could ride even I want that very much. It is difficult to find men even you offer him money to get ride.

I think we women like more shoulderriding than men do when women ride and men are our "horses".

As far as I can see, here in Gemany there are lots of very well-built guys who would even pay up to 300 and 500 Euros just for 1 hour ride.
I cannot imagine that you in Finland do not have guys this like.
The easiest way you tell in a forum in Finland that you are lookong for male for use as a human horse.

Hi frederik,
As per to my colleague from Finland I am looking for a ride as well, main diferences:
I am a man looking for women therefore, do you know any women able for carriying me?

I am 70kg man and I would like a professional women no less than 80 kg with strong shoulders. Would be there any one in Germany?

I would appreciate your help.

Many thanks
Regards

equidum wrote:

Even a strong & heavy 80 kg woman is a lot weaker than any man of the same size/weight, and you will, most prbably, be very disappointed by Her poor performance as a horse ... Now, you're maybe in search of other kinds of pleasure ?! I hope so for you ....

Equidum

Hi equidum,

Thank you very much for your advise, however I have a strong experience riding on women shoulders, at this point and taking into account my 70 kg, women from 80 kg are suitables for getting on large shoulderrides, more than 5 minutes.
On the other hand, I asked for a professional horse women, I would pay her service.

Again, please, can anybody help me ?

I hope to talk you again.
Merci
Au revoir

I wish i cud live in a world -
1- where there are only 3-4 men available for 10-12 no. of girls.
2 -There shd be no transport available of any means...and only men are there for women for their transport to all places.
3- women shd dominate the world, and men in all forms.
4 - women size shd be big and all of the above above 80 kg, with thick built figure with large butts.
     and avg men weight shd not be more than 60 kg, so it will be hard enough to be her horse.
5- men start becoming horse for women from the age of 3 yrs onwards till he dies.
6- on an avg..normally 2-3 women wud ride a man in a day.

it is more like stories given by equidum, and of ladies island...but wish if it can come true.

I think a lot of women love to shoulderride men and other women alike.It is just that they fear they may be taken out of context if they start the encounter. When was the last time a woman that you don't know asked you if they can ride your shoulders? Not many! But I know a lot of guys who have asked many women if they would ride them.
   Maybe women view shoulderriding as not very important. Where a man views it as much more.

I agree with you, Kit. I've NEVER been asked to carry someone on my shoulders (women, only...I'm NOT interested in mom, I refuse that). But I've been asked by a girl to ride on her...I was embarassed but she ORDERED me to mount her, so I did it. I've got to jump off (we were in a pool) because I had a...physical reaction by riding . It was very cool...
I think that women don't feel to talk about sr like a passion, but they take it for a game even if they secretly like it.

and would love to see some more posts from women on here.  gotta be more out there that like this stuff as much as us, there just has to be.

febioWOW wrote:

I think that women don't feel to talk about sr like a passion, but they take it for a game even if they secretly like it.

I know a girl, we are very close friends, I told her about my interest in being ridden on shoulders. By that time I have carried her already 14 times before so it wasn't a huge surprise for her, however it was the first time I really talked about this with a girl. To my relief she doesn't have a problem with that, she said she could imagine that, a day later I got her on my shoulders for a fifteen's time. She has a boyfriend but I know now there will be more rides with her. I mentioned her in this forum already, she feels really good on my shoulders. She is a horse rider, too. So febios quote perfectly goes along with her.

Hi I think that you will find that a percentage of our female members are of the mythical kind

riderrii wrote:

i am female

Due to previous experiences with fake female members, I'm afraid that most members will not believe that you are female.

You might be interested in the following: Send a short audio clip to me (njetski@hotmail.com) where you say something. You must mention shoulder riding and your membership name or email address. If you without doubt sound like a female, I can then confirm this for the other members.

Yeah haha..time for female company:P

Nick wrote:

riderrii wrote:

i am female

Due to previous experiences with fake female members, I'm afraid that most members will not believe that you are female.

You might be interested in the following: Send a short audio clip to me (njetski@hotmail.com) where you say something. You must mention shoulder riding and your membership name or email address. If you without doubt sound like a female, I can then confirm this for the other members.

I too would like this verified but out of fairness to gals if she has to prove she is a gal should the rest of us have to prove we are guys? If a guy can impersonate a gal then it stands to  reason that a gal can impersonate a guy. Maybe Riding Blonde Liz is and was a gal in truth that impersonated a guy. How do we really know for sure without watching the person log in? Even then, guys and gals could log in under each others' passwords on the same computer to trick us all. Yes, due to geographical distances this is improbable but not impossible. Maybe "Liz" and "Roger" are truly a couple using more than one name.

We will never know for sure.

riderrii wrote:

i am female

Would you like to share some private stories? Nothing sexual or similar...only riding experience. I would be very very pleasured to talk directly with a girl, via MSN or similar...
ciao

Hi You both have very nice legs-I see no reason to doubt the your statements-If we are not careful we will soon all have to take a gender test or run 800mtrs in world record time.
On a more intellegent note-if you ever come to England my shoulders are always available.

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