Ultimate shoulder rides

Ciao

Thanks for sharing your experience. I think your courage to lie must be much appreciated: I think it not would be much easy for you to lie. But I'm happy for your ride's month.
   
Unfortunately is very hard that a Lady who love to ride on men shoulders encounter a man who love to be ridden. Myself I have had a my female collegue (short, but very pretty !) who have ridden me 4-5 month ago for a few seconds, on the stairs: but she do not love shoulderrides, as she not ask me to ride again or do effort to do again.

I hope you have many other rides!

Nick, I'm flattered that you recommended me as a possible "consultant" to help resolve Hong's dilemma, and I thank you for the compliment.  I'll try my best, although all I have to offer is common sense and I tiny bit of psychology, and may not be able to offer any ideas she hasn't already figured out for herself.

Hong, it's a pleasure to know that you feel the same kind of delight in shoulder riding that I do.  I've never visited China and I imagine that there are cultural differences that might make my suggested strategies less useful in your country than in mine, but there are a few things I've found helpful, and I'm sure that other girls on this side of the world have had success with similar ones.  Nevertheless, here's what occurs to me.

I think the most important thing is to find a well-motivated horse who will be glad to discover an opportunity to ask you to ride him.  This is the exact opposite of asking a horse to do you a favor and give you a ride even if he doesn't see it as pleasure and excitement for himself. 

One method that works well for me is to go to an outdoor event, whether it's a rock concert or just a crowd of people standing (that's important, because if they're sitting down this won't work), watching a parade or some kind of performance in a park or on the street.  I've enjoyed doing this especially in the summer, when it's warm enough for me to wear brief running shorts or cutoffs and a tight crop top, so that a potential horse can see my strong legs and well-exercised midsection and find my appearance a little sexy and appealing.  Remember, it's HIS motivation we're working on.  Now, if you're at the back of the crowd, particularly if you're short, like I am, and perhaps if you've picked a spot near some attractive physically-oriented man who may have his shirt off in the warm weather, perhaps consciously or unconsciouly hoping that people will admire his muscular build, you can give him a good opportunity to ask you to ride him, instead of the other way around.  You can try to see whatever the crowd is watching by standing on your toes, looking unsuccessfully over the heads of the crowd with a frustrated expression on your face.  Perhaps if you have a camera or camcorder, but can't get high enough to photograph whatever is happening, it will occur to him that if he offers to pick you up on his shoulders you'll be able to see better or take pictures and might accept his invitation.  He's being courteous, friendly, and generous, and at the same time he's found a perfectly acceptable way to get the attractive girl (you) that he'd love to feel straddling his neck to mount him. All completely harmless, but it gives him an opportunity HE wants, and he'll be grateful to have you ride him, especially if you sit up straight and wrap your legs around his sides, which will enhance the pleasure he is hoping for, and at the same time provide an exciting ride for you.  When that happens, the body language between the two of you can be really interesting.  You'll know very soon whether he's just being friendly and helpful, or whether the ride is stimulating for him, and even if he's trying deliberately to make it stimulating for you.

Another method I've found useful is to go to the beach, and look for a group of guys and girls having a long series of chicken fights, but where there are more guys than girls.  If they see an attractive, smiling girl who looks good in a bikini watching them with interest, sometimes they will be very glad to ask you to join them and reduce the shortage of female riders to everyone's mutual pleasure.

I feel a bit silly sounding off like this because I don't know enough about China.  Perhaps there are customs or even taboos that would make my suggestions inappropriate, but other situations in which you can make someone WANT to give you a ride.  Either way, I wish you the very best of luck, and I hope you will let us know how things work out for you and how you enjoy the rides I hope you will have.

Good luck! 

Liz

Thanks for your really nice advice, I don't get oppertunities to see concert in China like you do in western countries, or go to beach is not conveinnent for me either, but thank you for all these detailed suggestions! your stories are very very interesting

movieyou2003 wrote:

I remember I was always shy to ask to ride on guy's shoulders, one funny story was that when i was in senior high school, i had this boy friend, who i was very shy to express my feelings about shoulder riding, but i tried to express it in other way, he was bit short, and one day we were on the top of a hill, there was wind, he asked me to ride on his shoulders, i did, and it felt sooo good, but he doesnt ask again for few more days, so i created a lie for him, i told him that if he does heavy squatting everyday with someone on his shoulders that would make him grow more, he heard that and was very heappy, he said that i would be the great tool for him to excersice, and if i am willing, i told him yes, so it was few months later he discovered i lied to him, he was bit upset, but i really enjoyed a lot during that months!

Hong

That was a very creative way to make him carry you. It was one of the very best ways for a shy girl to make a boy to carry her.
I guess you were really happy for your rides during that months. I would like to know more details about your experience.
Good story.
Thanks for sharing your experience.