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She is Over Reacting too much..
170 pounds is not that heavy...appx 60-62 kg..I Guess.
gyulasziposz wrote:
https://thinmintspiration.wordpress.com/2014/08/23/what-i-learned-about-my-body-after-my-first-chicken-fight/
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77kg!! Not heavy to carry, but for a woman its a little bit heavy!
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I think that every woman goes though a phase of hating her "imperfect body" and sometimes this phase can last a lifetime. Sometimes it's a specific thing about themselves such as breast being to small , thighs to fat and most commonly, feeling she is too fat.
In relation to this subject, I think it's more a question of self esteem as in the case of the lady in the story being uncomfortable about sitting on her friend's shoulders. He was willing to lift her by his own choice and it must have been obvious to him that she wasn't petite . If she had the right attitude about herself, she would have accepted his attempt and accepted the fact that his strain was part of his service to her and that she deserved both his service and the effort on his part in performing this service. His effort and even some degree of suffering on his part as she sat on him is a sign of her worth to him and she should not see herself as less worthy than he does.
I'm smaller than the lady in the story but have sat on the shoulders of several men and boys who had difficulty lifting and carrying me. The difference being that I believe I'm worthy of their efforts and their service.
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Trigger, many people have disagreed with my attitude but you are correct in regard to what my attitude is generally. However, I don't believe that all women are superior in nature or that all men must be inferior.
I think that most men should serve women, but some women should serve superior men and some men should serve either women or superior men or both.
I believe that this is based on the attitude and quality of each person in their respective position of master and underling. I also believe that in regard to these positions and service , that some people don't know their proper place.
For example, I recently became aware of two men of my acquaintance who give and receive shoulder rides from each other, trading off the role of rider and mount . Yet one of these men is clearly the superior in nature and desire. He is clearly in charge and only submits to being the carrier in order to have his turn as the master.
The second man is somewhat unwilling to fully submit and seems to use his turn as a rider to maintain his illusion of equality in their relationship.
After a conversation with the superior man, I suggested that he fully assume the role of master, demand this service from his partner and take his proper place, or find another partner who is willing to accept their respective positions.
Should it happen that I ever visit India I can almost imagine taking advantage of the service you offered. I have found that I don't do well walking in excessive heat and while such an arrangement might results in some criticism and disapproval, I'm inclined to accept scorn and ridicule over sore feet and excessive perspiration.
I was very much inclined to making such an arrangement while I was a tourist in southern Mexico , after another tourist semi seriously suggested hiring Mexican peons to perform this service. Later, my aching legs, blistered feet and ruined shoes made me wish I had followed that suggestion.
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Audrey..
Great Thing..
Anytime shoulder rides in India..Though we can see, what actually can happen, when you visit some fine day.
And any recent rides.???
Audreyb wrote:
Trigger, many people have disagreed with my attitude but you are correct in regard to what my attitude is generally. However, I don't believe that all women are superior in nature or that all men must be inferior.
I think that most men should serve women, but some women should serve superior men and some men should serve either women or superior men or both.
I believe that this is based on the attitude and quality of each person in their respective position of master and underling. I also believe that in regard to these positions and service , that some people don't know their proper place.
For example, I recently became aware of two men of my acquaintance who give and receive shoulder rides from each other, trading off the role of rider and mount . Yet one of these men is clearly the superior in nature and desire. He is clearly in charge and only submits to being the carrier in order to have his turn as the master.
The second man is somewhat unwilling to fully submit and seems to use his turn as a rider to maintain his illusion of equality in their relationship.
After a conversation with the superior man, I suggested that he fully assume the role of master, demand this service from his partner and take his proper place, or find another partner who is willing to accept their respective positions.
Should it happen that I ever visit India I can almost imagine taking advantage of the service you offered. I have found that I don't do well walking in excessive heat and while such an arrangement might results in some criticism and disapproval, I'm inclined to accept scorn and ridicule over sore feet and excessive perspiration.
I was very much inclined to making such an arrangement while I was a tourist in southern Mexico , after another tourist semi seriously suggested hiring Mexican peons to perform this service. Later, my aching legs, blistered feet and ruined shoes made me wish I had followed that suggestion.
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Unfortunately my business occupied much of my summer and while I had hoped that my friend who supplied the underling that served as my carrier last summer would do so again, the opportunity passed me by because I was occupied on the days that were available and the person I was carried by suffered a spinal injury this summer which of course made him unavailable leaving my friend with only one carrier.
I did get lifted on the shoulders of one man in a motel swimming pool while taking a brief break from working while on a business trip out of town. I met some people at the motel pool and a rather impromptu game of beach ball volleyball involving the ladies sitting on the shoulders of their husbands. A single man in the group asked me to partner with him and I was soon sitting on his shoulders in the deeper end of the pool. It was nice to sit on a man's shoulders of course but not as enjoyable as riding with my friend last summer in spite of my carrier's displeasure in being my mount.
As I mentioned before, I don't usually pursue the activity of shoulder riding as my friend does.
For me it's an occasional activity for fun or more rarely, as a method of transportation or for a specific purpose such as reaching something when a ladder isn't available or practical.
You must forgive me for not having something more interesting to report on this subject.
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Audrey.
The experience and views are the most interesting things. And any exp is good.
Thanks.
Audreyb wrote:
Unfortunately my business occupied much of my summer and while I had hoped that my friend who supplied the underling that served as my carrier last summer would do so again, the opportunity passed me by because I was occupied on the days that were available and the person I was carried by suffered a spinal injury this summer which of course made him unavailable leaving my friend with only one carrier.
I did get lifted on the shoulders of one man in a motel swimming pool while taking a brief break from working while on a business trip out of town. I met some people at the motel pool and a rather impromptu game of beach ball volleyball involving the ladies sitting on the shoulders of their husbands. A single man in the group asked me to partner with him and I was soon sitting on his shoulders in the deeper end of the pool. It was nice to sit on a man's shoulders of course but not as enjoyable as riding with my friend last summer in spite of my carrier's displeasure in being my mount.
As I mentioned before, I don't usually pursue the activity of shoulder riding as my friend does.
For me it's an occasional activity for fun or more rarely, as a method of transportation or for a specific purpose such as reaching something when a ladder isn't available or practical.
You must forgive me for not having something more interesting to report on this subject.
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Audrey:
How often do you ask guys for shoulder rides in your daily life? Like how were the last couple encounters?
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guero: I don't ask for shoulder rides very often at all in my daily life and as I said previously, I would usually only make such a request for a specific purpose. I have often watched parades or similar events while sitting on a male companions shoulders simply because I'm rather short in stature (5ft 2in) and need an elevated position. Other than my adventures last year riding on the shoulders of my friends submissive, I haven't specifically asked or demanded this service from anyone except my (now) ex husband. I don't consider requesting this service to be out of line or an extraordinary imposition for a healthy adult male and a number of men have offered to serve me in this capacity and even said they enjoyed being of service.
I'm aware that some men see this act as erotic and I'm not troubled by such feelings. Most have been gentlemen about it and didn't take advantage of our proximity and kept their hands in the proper place. The few who misbehaved have been slapped, but that is rare.
As for the question that is un-asked, Yes, I do enjoy sitting on a man's shoulders and I think most women who are not frightened by the position also enjoy it. I don't see it as being different from sitting on his lap . For those who imagine that the area of the body being in contact implies sexual intimacy, I might suggest that the same areas are in contact while sitting on a donkey, a bicycle seat or even a chair for that matter without any intimacy being considered .
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Audreyb wrote:
Most have been gentlemen about it and didn't take advantage of our proximity and kept their hands in the proper place. The few who misbehaved have been slapped, but that is rare.
I am not sure which place you would consider improper, it appears kind of hard for a man to touch any improper place in that position with his hands.
Or do you consider putting his hands on or slightly above your knees to press them down (as seen for multiple cheerleaders in the top banner of this site) not proper?
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shouldertaxi wrote:
77kg!! Not heavy to carry, but for a woman its a little bit heavy!
But remember the story is about chicken fights in a pool. Then 170 lbs is not that much. On dry ground - yes.
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Fisk: I'm not a prude and I know the difference between touching and fondling. A man holding my legs to maintain stability while I'm sitting on him is performing a service for my benefit . Several time while I was sitting on a man's shoulders watching a parade or concert etc. for a long period of time, the man lifted my bottom with his hands to adjust my weight upon him or because part of his or my clothing was irritating his neck or some similar reason.
I see nothing improper in such actions.
It is only when it's obvious that he is taking advantage of the proximity of our bodies to touch or stroke me without my permission that he might get slapped. The man I am sitting on is not always my servant or slave. But he is serving me and not himself whether he enjoys the position or otherwise. I have coerced men and boys into this position as an adult but obviously I can't force them to carry me or let me sit on their shoulders.
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