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Hello there,
I have been lurking on the forum for a while and have been frankly to nervous to register and post. However, Ive built up the courage to so here goes.
I am a young lad that would love to be ridden by an older person. I know this sounds really bad but I would love to be ridden by my mum. she is much bigger than me. i dare not ask her though as she would be upset. I am in the south east of England and Im happy to be ridden by a guy or a woman but I would really prefer it to be a woman.
Im quite short and about 8st (I dont know what that is in KG). I dont mind how heavy the person that rides me ias I will do my best to carry you but of course if you are really heavy I might not be able to get you on my shoulders although I am happy to try. Looks / age do not bother me.
Im really nervous about meeting up with someone but would really really love to be ridden so if anyone is interested then we'll work something out.
Thanks
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I am always on the lookout for ponies-I weigh about 10 stone,but of course I am a bloke! If you would prefer a woman to ride you,then I wish you all the best.How about Passion? But if you would like to contact me at alistaireden@hotmail.co.uk,we could at least have a harmless chat on E-mail-if you are shy,then you dont have to commit yourself to anything unless you are absolutely sure you are comfortable with the person you are meeting.
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ali2121 wrote:
I am always on the lookout for ponies-I weigh about 10 stone,but of course I am a bloke! If you would prefer a woman to ride you,then I wish you all the best.How about Passion? But if you would like to contact me at alistaireden@hotmail.co.uk,we could at least have a harmless chat on E-mail-if you are shy,then you dont have to commit yourself to anything unless you are absolutely sure you are comfortable with the person you are meeting.
Hi Ali
Thanks for answering me. Yes, I am really nervous - Its weird actually, I really want to do this and not just fantasise about being ridden but at the same time, the difference between wanting to do it and doing it is huge for me. I wish I had the courage to ask my mum if I could give her a shoulder ride of maybe one of her friends. She has one friend that, although is quite large I would love to have on my shoulders. Anyway, its not going to happen, so thats why I have registered here.
As I said Ali, I would prefer to be ridden by a woman but would be happy to be ridden by a man as well. I have set up an email address to talk to people first before fixing anything up and that is pwill009@gmail.com . A chat would be good to start with and see how things go. I dont want to mess anybody around, I am really keen to be ridden, just very shy.
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Thanks for the reply,s.e.pony.You say you are a young lad.I am assuming that you have met the minimum age requirements for this forum.Ill be in touch.
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I am 16.
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I notice their are a lot of people from England,Canada,India who are looking for people to ride or want to be ridden. Is their anyone from the U.S. who likes to ride others. I am a willing pony if you dont mind age.
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hi, Just to say, that I am genuine.
i've had a couple of emails asking me if im really 16 and so on. I am young yes, but I am genuine. im here because i am shy and to afraid to ask people i know like my family and their friends, and this is not something you can really go up to a stranger in the street and ask them.
so, im here and genuine.
:-)
pwill009@gmail.com
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Femlifter,If I can get my first ride at the age of 58,then there must be people over in that big country of yours willing to take up your offer.Keep trying!
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Hi southeastpony,
don't worry about being shy! After you have had your first experiences you will gradually feel more self-confident. Right now your young age and shyness could even be an advantage as some women might think of you as a nice, cute boy. I would not offer a shoulder ride to my mum or someone close to the family to be honest if I were you. If you take yourself the time to check out ideas for shoulder riding occasions (how to get someone on your shoulders, the best situations, circumstances) on this side by reading postings from our members or watch videos it might help you and you will see it's not that BIG that you need to be too shy about. Maybe you should start with girls of your age or slithly older than you to get some experience for the beginning and then take the next step to elder women which you are aiming for. Some easy occasions would be for instance at a concert or maybe even better in a swimming pool at a pool party. You could encourage there a woman to get on your shoulders for a chicken fight, you might be surprised how much fun they would have, too.
Wish you the best for your first steps,
regards,
Louie
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louie_sr wrote:
Hi southeastpony,
don't worry about being shy! After you have had your first experiences you will gradually feel more self-confident. Right now your young age and shyness could even be an advantage as some women might think of you as a nice, cute boy. I would not offer a shoulder ride to my mum or someone close to the family to be honest if I were you. If you take yourself the time to check out ideas for shoulder riding occasions (how to get someone on your shoulders, the best situations, circumstances) on this side by reading postings from our members or watch videos it might help you and you will see it's not that BIG that you need to be too shy about. Maybe you should start with girls of your age or slithly older than you to get some experience for the beginning and then take the next step to elder women which you are aiming for. Some easy occasions would be for instance at a concert or maybe even better in a swimming pool at a pool party. You could encourage there a woman to get on your shoulders for a chicken fight, you might be surprised how much fun they would have, too.
Wish you the best for your first steps,
regards,
Louie
Hi Louie
thank you for that. the thing is I dont want to carry anyone near or my own age. yes i would prefer the rider to me a much older woman but i know that its morely likely to meet a man prepared to ride me. i have been wanting this for a long time now since I was a small kid really. it was just good luck that i found your forum today.
anyways , thank you for your welcome. its nice.
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southeastpony wrote:
hi, Just to say, that I am genuine.
i've had a couple of emails asking me if im really 16 and so on. I am young yes, but I am genuine. im here because i am shy and to afraid to ask people i know like my family and their friends, and this is not something you can really go up to a stranger in the street and ask them.
so, im here and genuine.
:-)
pwill009@gmail.com
I wish I were there. I would show you there is nothing to be shy about. Alot of men and women would love to carry you.If I were you I would try an indoor swimming pool. I suggest that because it is probably cold there to go to a beach. Or maybe a park where you will find people just relaxing looking for fun. I am wishing you good luck inyour finding someone.
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ali2121 wrote:
Femlifter,If I can get my first ride at the age of 58,then there must be people over in that big country of yours willing to take up your offer.Keep trying!
You are right ali2121. I am going to search a little harder.
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femlifter52 wrote:
southeastpony wrote:
hi, Just to say, that I am genuine.
i've had a couple of emails asking me if im really 16 and so on. I am young yes, but I am genuine. im here because i am shy and to afraid to ask people i know like my family and their friends, and this is not something you can really go up to a stranger in the street and ask them.
so, im here and genuine.
:-)
pwill009@gmail.comI wish I were there. I would show you there is nothing to be shy about. Alot of men and women would love to carry you.If I were you I would try an indoor swimming pool. I suggest that because it is probably cold there to go to a beach. Or maybe a park where you will find people just relaxing looking for fun. I am wishing you good luck inyour finding someone.
Hi Femlifter - Im actually looking for people to ride me, not me ride them. Im looking for men or women between the ages of 25-65. Looks etc dont matter, sorry im not where you are but i hope you find what ur looking for as well
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Dont give up,Femlifter.I was lucky enough to have my first rides on a man of 39 years of age,and am in touch by E-mail with two others who are young enough to be my grandsons!! But a lot of men quite naturally prefer to carry women on their shoulders,and so people like myself who prefer MOM are limited in choice.I think aegism does play a part-there seem to be some people on the Forum who profess to be enthusiastic about shoulder riding,and then suddenly stop answering E-mail for no apparent reason.The important thing to remember is that there is sure to be someone out there somewhere,however far away they may be,and this Forum will succeed in bringing such people together.
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Hi,
please could anyone that wants to email me use this email address: pwill009@gmail.com.
for some reason i cant reply to emails sent via the forum system using aol accounts.
thank you everyone. :-)
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Good Luck SouthEast, thank you for the email but you are too young for me I am afraid xx
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TO YOUNG-TO OLD-i SUPPOSE WHAT IS REQUIRED IS MIDDLE AGED SPREAD.
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Get in touch,I'll ride you.Lykztoplay@yahoo.com. 12st 10 here.
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Passion wrote:
Good Luck SouthEast, thank you for the email but you are too young for me I am afraid xx
Passion you dont travel do you? If I ever get to the UK I,m looking you up.
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Femlifter, it would be my pleasure xx
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ryderguyz wrote:
Get in touch,I'll ride you.Lykztoplay@yahoo.com. 12st 10 here.
For those who wish to stay out of prison it seems like an adult of any adult age would want to avoid doing anything with a minor that could be considered "sexual" (the word I typed in was not the word, "nice." It was a word that begins with the letter "s" and ends with the letter "l". So much for freedom of the press in this day and age.) by those who have to power to put such an adult in prison. What is "sexual" (again a different said word was typed in.) and what is not is highly debatable but life is not fair and he who said, "people are crazier than anybody" has never been proven wrong.
For all teenagers wishing to be shoulder ridden by an elder my wish is that they get ridden by an elder relative in a way "that nobody gets hurt" which is also highly subjective and debatable.
In the case of Joe Paterno, the recent former head football coach at Penn State University, it is my understanding he was fired for failure to take strong enough action in response to ALLEGATIONS that his number one assistant coach sexually (Take out the "l" and the "y" and this is the "other said word I typed in. Gunde, is this the kind of nonsense that must be accommodated to keep this website from being shut down?) abused minors. It also appears to me that it would take only one angry vengeful minor child and one dishonorable adult "witness" to find "guilty" one adult who was simply trying to enjoy shoulder riding on a teenager's shoulders who was not yet legally an adult under the laws of the jurisdiction where this occurred.
Even if the shoulder rider was found not guilty of "wrongful sexual contact with a child" (Again, a different word was typed in. How could there be "wrongful 'nice' contact with a child?") most would agree that it would be better to have never been tried in court to begin with.
At the risk or expense of offending some, if I were a woman and a mother, I would prefer to shoulder ride my teenage son versus encouraging him to secretly shoulder carry some adult stranger I do not know or trust even if I thought shoulder riding my teenage son was wrong, inappropriate or evil. Even if I still refused to shoulder ride my teenage son maybe I could have arranged for him to shoulder carry an older loving female cousin he adores and I also adore and TRUST. Either way, I would show appreciation and thank my sixteen year old son for discussing all this with me instead of sneaking off and shoulder carrying some adult I do not know and/or trust.
There was a video on youtube entitled, "Summer Fun" which showed a six year old boy shoulder carrying his mother in a swimming pool. The voice in the background, possibly of one holding the video camera, sounds like that of an older woman, possibly the boy's grandma. I saw nothing evil or inappropriate about it even though it appears to me that some would such that it would bring much trouble to this website if it were posted on this website such that it may not be posted on this website. Or is it alright as long as the adult is shoulder riding the child and the child is not shoulder riding the adult? This too, of course makes no sense to me. But, Gunde acting as umpire, policeman, and enforcer of what may or may not be posted in order to keep this website from getting shut down makes total sense to me.
Southeastpony, if I were father or mother, I would prefer you show this text to your mother with nobody else present and try to see it from her point of view. Hopefully she will consent to trying to see it from you point of view if you tell her that you tried to see it from her point, now will she please return you the courtesy. Maybe she is afraid of adverse consequences for her and her family if she does shoulder ride you. Maybe she fears you will try to have sex with her next. Some who shoulder carry gals do try to have sex with those gals. Maybe she does not understand that many guys and gals shoulder carry younger and older sisters and many other types of older and younger cousins and other relatives with no thought of having sex. My guess is that at age sixteen the behavior of many elders is frustrating, makes no sense, and is irritating. Some of that will be the case at age fifty-five too. But, your mother still wants what is best for you and will sacrifice her life to protect yours and many other adults are not that way.
If I were such a sixteen year-old I would ask to speak with such a mother alone. I would insist on speaking with her alone and tell Dad that this was not about anything against Dad. When alone I would ask her to please not yell or be nasty about what I am about to discuss but instead make it encouraging to talk with her versus sneaking off and doing something with some adult stranger she does not know or trust with possible results she and I may both regret. Then I would ask her to read ALL of this before responding. If she responded before finishing reading it all, I would calmly repeat my request, "Mother, please read all of it first."
Best of luck to you whatever you decide, Southeast Pony. I realize I am not you and your mother was never my mother.
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namaegaaru wrote:
In the case of Joe Paterno, the recent former head football coach at Penn State University, it is my understanding he was fired for failure to take strong enough action in response to ALLEGATIONS that his number one assistant coach sexually (Take out the "l" and the "y" and this is the "other said word I typed in. Gunde, is this the kind of nonsense that must be accommodated to keep this website from being shut down?) abused minors.
But, Gunde acting as umpire, policeman, and enforcer of what may or may not be posted in order to keep this website from getting shut down makes total sense to me.
I´m not exactly sure about what you want me to comment on? I don´t know about Joe Paterno as american football, especially at university level, never reaches the news here. The only american football game I watch is Super Bowl.
Some of our members certainly might find our rules too strict or even silly. If this site would be hosted on an adult server, we could have different rules. But we are not hosted on an adult server, so we must avoid certain things such as sexual descriptions about how we feel or react while riding or after the ride.
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Gunde, I was wondering if the situation in this world is so ridiculous that we may never have the word, without anything between the letters, "s-e-x-u-a-l" posted such that if this word is typed in, the word, "nice" consistently posts instead? Must we have this to prevent having this website shut down? My understanding is that your previous post indicates that this is indeed the case.
No, I do not have a problem with you being strict with rules on this website. The situation does call for it. As a father, husband, former naval officer, former school teacher, former merchant mariner, current security guard, I too see occasional needs for those in authority to impose conditions that are unpopular but necessary.
I too understand that a family, a business, a ship, a classroom, and many other organizations would function best as benevolent dictatorships, not as democracies. It has been said that "What is right is not always popular. What is popular is not always right."
Also, no matter what any one person does, somebody else will object. I notice that I too have drawn objections from others at times.
May we all enjoy our fetish or passion, whatever we call it, of shoulder riding.
Another topic:
This may be the video you wanted from me, Gunde, if you or this website does not have it already.
I did not upload it. I got rid of most of my shoulder riding videos. Somebody damaged my computer with adware or software such that I had to take it to a store for repairs, partly due to my lack of knowledge with computers.
This is the link is:
www.megavideo.com/?v=IKDB1106. 
Clicked on the link after posting this. The result was, "This video is unavailable" or words to that effect.
I did not download or view it and cannot guarantee that it is safe for anybody's computer.
Saw it on a video search on yahoo.com under, "shoulder riding" even after the link stated the video is unavailable. Tried links there and was told I would have to pay for a premium membership to get it.
Best of luck to anybody that downloads it.
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