Ultimate shoulder rides

Would that ever change?

One woman told me that if she sits astride a man's shoulders then it means to her that she wants to be with that man. I believe she meant that in this case  this meant she wants to be his lover and no other man's.


My guess is that most women feel the same way.

I was surprised that girls younger than puberty are carried the same way in the photos linked to this topic, on one shoulder only, but then I feel I often misunderstand people in general. Apparently these porters who must have lovers, wives, and families of their own, receive less trouble from customers and their own lovers and families by carrying all females on one shoulder only.

Personally even if I would enjoy carrying various women or girls on my shoulders or enjoy being shoulder carried by many different women, I would still honor my commitment of sex with my wife only and kiss only my wife on other places besides her hand, facial cheek, or forehead  but it appears that most people are very different from me and would certainly suspect that if I tried to shoulder carry other women than my wife that my intention is to eventually have sex with these other women. My own wife and son have even expressed fear that my viewing of this website means I am interested in relationships with other women.

If I ever do have a relationship with another woman it will be with sex inside of marriage only and I expect her to always try very hard to do unto others as most others would have done unto others.  Sadistic selfish women are not for me.

My guess is that most women will never participate in this website because for them to visit with many men they do not know about something often considered sexual in nature, shoulder riding, would make these women appear to be loyal to no one lover or husband and therefore undesirable as a lover or a wife. Another guess is that this would have to be verified with female lovers, wives, female relatives, and the few female friends one may have that are not lovers.

Tina, and "Alice" and "Hong" appear to have been exceptions but most exceptions seem to have disappeared soon after finding a lover. We also know that many "females" have truly been males.

Movieyou........  or "Hong," on the one hand you appear to be female in that if you told the truth about your age when I first read it, you would now be 29 or 30 but you are still "27." On the other hand your love of BDSM as shown by postings of FEMDOM from other sites seems male in nature to me. But it appears to me that a few women love to exert FEMDOM on others and maybe you are one of them. Wishing peace and happiness for you and the others you deal with. Not going to tell you how to find it. After 54 years, I am still not happy and unqualified to tell you how.

Rachel Sinclair, doubt you would be here except to sell Lift and Carry Videos of you. Welcome anyway. Best of luck to you in this business. Wishing a happy life for both you and a lover of yours, whoever that person may be.


Why many guys want to have sex with different women or men I will never understand either because this is a good way to die prematurely with sexually transmitted diseases and have to deal with unintended children but this site is about the enjoyment of shoulder riding. I would love to just shoulder carry kind, considerate gals who enjoy this  without having sex or even the fear of possible sex involved. Doubt this will ever happen.

Wishing you guys and all the participating females in life lots of joy and happiness with shoulder riding and other activities as long as you try to do unto others as others would have others do unto others.

She did not like this ride at first but she was glad that they carried her safely in the end such that she will hire them again.  Maybe she will learn to like this ride some day. Doubt she will sit astride but believe she will sit on one shoulder in order to appear that she will not have sex with just anybody or be just anybody's lover that carries her. Yes, Gunde, I supposed you feel that I have contributed enough and really ought to take a break now. I believe I will try that.

Male Thong Rider wrote:

I am going to have to book a holiday to the philippines, I will go as a scotts man wearing a kilt! lol

Then they will most certainly put you on only one shoulder...

This may make no sense to many of you or surprise you but I believe that Bergt and I think in a very similar manner.

For example:

1. He and I write that neither of us have cheated on our wives. I believe him because I see no reason for him to lie. I was there. I watched myself. I did not cheat on my wife.

2. I would love  to shoulder carry females who enjoy this with no intention from her or me to become lovers of each other or have sex.

3. Bergt loves to watch females ride shoulders and on other creatures. So do I.

4. I wish more people would think like Bergt on these issues of guys shoulder carrying gals who are not wives, lovers, or family members, that this will harm nobody and will just be fun.

I envy you Bergt in that your wife loves to shoulder ride you. My hope is that some day trust will become won between me and people like you and that I get to shoulder carry wives and female family members like yours with the same understanding that they will remain lovers of their husbands or not become my lover because I intend to remain loyal to my wife.

In my previous post, I was writing about how I perceive that others perceive shoulder riding. I can only observe how they think. I can not be inside their minds and really know how they think. I wish I could.

Wishing you, Bergt, and your wife, and female family members, and other female friends and acquaintances, much continued joy with such females riding.

Yes, enjoying the eroticism does not mean violating marriage vows. We live on the Earth way too short a time. Let's enjoy this time while we can.