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Dear members,
Please be careful with how you express yourselves in the forum. Words such as "sexy" and "nude" are not allowed. We have many different members here with different approaches to shoulder riding and the activity of shoulder riding is not to be regarded here as sexual. Of course, we can use words such as "fun", "exciting", "nice" etc. Please stick to those instead. We do not want this community to be closed down, do we? Thanks for your understanding.
Nick
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You got my attention. The website appeared to be shut down about 10 hours ago. After thinking about I remember that I too am guilty of using words like "sexual," "sexy," and "nude" and will avoid using these words in discussions again.
I suppose this site has to be one that grandmas feel comfortable viewing with their grandchildren with the understanding that identified minors stay out of the bonus sections.
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I'm sorry, I did not know that these words would cause problems to the group. I regret what happened.
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Oh my! I am not sure if I am an offender, but if so, I am very, very sorry, and will definitely refrain in the future.
My sincerist apologies.
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Nick wrote:
Dear members,
Please be careful with how you express yourselves in the forum. Words such as "sexy" and "nude" are not allowed. We have many different members here with different approaches to shoulder riding and the activity of shoulder riding is not to be regarded here as sexual. Of course, we can use words such as "fun", "exciting", "nice" etc. Please stick to those instead. We do not want this community to be closed down, do we? Thanks for your understanding.
Nick
Ciao Nick
This is not against your warning. Absolutely. But I think: why these words are as dangerous? Are we in the nazism or in the fascism ? What world is this that force you to warning us about these? Who and why can close our board? Because we use a very offensive and dangerous word as 'se...y'? Thus half of sites of world must be closed. And all on line journals.. And the commercial sites that sell sex...al oriented clips? I think there will be more serious reasons to close a site, like pedopornography or illegal activities. Yes, we cannot have child photos or nu..ty, but the discussion would be free. I repeat: this is not against your warning and myself will obey, but I think that world is crazy, and I do not want to have affairs with crazies.
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Ponyxwoman, I agree with you in part. We must comply for now to help this website continue.
Maybe we need a bonus area for discussions that excludes minors so that parents of children are not offended.
However, that would require additional time, work, and money that I do not want to spend right now.
Also, with freedom comes responsibility. It would be inappropriate and irresponsible to express some freedoms of expression and thought which would offend people such as grandparents and parents in the presence of their children, etc. or to discuss such thoughts to their children and grandchildren even without such parents and grandparents present.
We must remember that children have access to the non-bonus member areas without identifying themselves and to the bonus member areas too when they falsely identify themselves as adults.
I had an Aunt that recently died at age 87. I reserve my right to participate in this website with you but would want to exercise my right responsibly and not show this website to her.
I would do my best to show the same respect towards your elders.
Again, we must have freedom but we must exercise freedom responsibly.
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Hello members,
first of all nobody has to be sorry for having used words like sexy in the threads. You could not know it would be such a problem. The background of this action is that the provider of this site (not we admins) automatically reacts to such words and could close this site because the links seem to provide spam content. It is kind of a security step to avoid spammers with maybe ilegal or dangerous content/links. That is why we ask you for your understanding from now on to use different more harmless phrases as Nick indicated.
Regards,
Louie
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I will be more careful too using these kind of words in the future. Thanks for the notice.
-d
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ponyxwoman wrote:
But I think: why these words are as dangerous? Are we in the nazism or in the fascism ? What world is this that force you to warning us about these? Who and why can close our board? Because we use a very offensive and dangerous word as 'se...y'? Thus half of sites of world must be closed. And all on line journals.. And the commercial sites that sell sex...al oriented clips? I think there will be more serious reasons to close a site, like pedopornography or illegal activities. Yes, we cannot have child photos or nu..ty, but the discussion would be free. I repeat: this is not against your warning and myself will obey, but I think that world is crazy, and I do not want to have affairs with crazies.
Hi Ponyxwoman
You obviously didn´t log in while the site was down?
Our host, they who own the server this forum is located on, don´t like those words as Louie explained. They can be misunderstood.
We have been strict about not allowing clearly copyrighted pics. That was for a reason. Now we are asking you to describe i.e. a clip on Youtube as a "Pole dance" instead of a "S**y pole dance". Please also be careful when you write stories.
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namaegaaru wrote:
Maybe we need a bonus area for discussions that excludes minors so that parents of children are not offended.
I´m afraid that a bonus section wouldn´t help. The owners of the server can naturally access all content in this an every other forum located on their server.
The takedown of the forum had nothing to with minors. The problem was of different nature.
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Nick wrote:
Dear members,
Please be careful with how you express yourselves in the forum. Words such as "sexy" and "nude" are not allowed. We have many different members here with different approaches to shoulder riding and the activity of shoulder riding is not to be regarded here as sexual. Of course, we can use words such as "fun", "exciting", "nice" etc. Please stick to those instead. We do not want this community to be closed down, do we? Thanks for your understanding.
Nick
I have one story on the topic, saying, wow shoulder.No Nick I will not hesitate to spread it.
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Thanks members for your understanding. The rules are now updated.
Just to clarify, there is no specific list of words. Just use common sense. In case an admin will find something unsuitable, the word or sentence will be deleted or edited in some way.
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Ciao Gunde, ciao Nick
Unfortunately my poor knowledge of english language fordid me to express as I want. Excuse me if I can create misunderstandings. I will use few words.
My opinion do not is against the administrators, but I want to end my past opinion about this argument.
The core of my intervention is my astonishment about the rules of the owners of this server. There are laws, and for example copyright matter is a serious infringments of laws. But a too arbitrary imposition of rules is wrong.
Yes. I have aknolewdged your warnings, be sure. But if owner of server can do their rules, I'm free not to be on this forum. I do not care of bonus memberships or other premium things, I have a infinite shoulderriding material. My interest is only to be among friends, to discuss, and to enjoy, and to let my friends enjoying. I hope I have express myself and excuse of all offenses I can have do.
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Got you Nick. Sorry. Got a little carried away. Your right. Totally agree.
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