Ultimate shoulder rides

Hi Riderrii-your aurorae must be wonderful-especially in the dark.

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Ciao Friends

I think the identity's problem exists in this group, as in the whole WEB. Only close and physical aknolewdge is the proof of anyone's identity. For example, why I cannot to be a female with blue eyes and long legs? You cannot known.
And this is not regarding the human gendre only: but also, for example, the experiences that we all write. For example, I have read some not realistic stories (I have a great friend, a real man-horse for ladies, who agree with me regarding some fake 'real' story posted in this group)

I think that our only salvation is the reciprocal faith. If there is anyone who is fake, I complaint his or her insanity. The lie is his or her problem.
This group is for all us, women and men, who want enjoy our passion: shoulderriding. And we all must enjoy all together.

Hi, I'm a 34-year-old woman from the U.S. (Midwest).  I'm new to this, but I can tell you exactly why I harbor fantasies about receiving shoulder rides.  I have been overweight for many years, and recently lost a lot of weight.  I'm still too heavy for most men to carry, I'm sure (only interested in being carried by men, and not interested in carrying anyone) -- hopefully in a few months that will change, as I lose weight pretty fast.  I think that most women who are very overweight are very turned on by men who are strong enough to lift them.  In fact, I once stayed with a man an extra three months simply because he was strong enough to lift me off the ground when I was at my heaviest weight (although I never received a shoulder ride from him -- I haven't had one of those since I was twelve and am LOOKING FORWARD TO IT).  I do have a couple of questions -- For men: What do you think is a reasonable weight for the average man to carry?  Do you think I need to wait and try this when I reach 160 pounds (my goal weight since I'm almost six feet tall), or do you think I could easily find a man who could carry me when I reach 180 or 190 pounds?  For women:  Since I'm so tall, it may be hard for me to find a taller man for a shoulder ride.  Have you ever ridden on a shorter man's shoulders?  If so, do you recommend it?

Looking forward to hearing from anyone interested in responding!  I honestly thought it would be really hard to find a man to carry me even when I reached my goal weight.  Apparently it's not as hard as I think!

I agree with lindy.
Teenager and pre-teenage girls are usually very often interested innshoulder rides and I remember as one of the few boys in the riding stable that the girls were a vast majority and it was often quite usual that the teenagegirls were trying to get a shoulder ride as the way from the stable to the village was quite far away.
The girls usually had not any reservations and some even were insisting to get a ride home and most of them really enjoyed.
But as soon as they got over 16 or 17 years and when they had their first friends most of them they suddenly lost any interest.
They just changed completely their mind.
Why this happened I think only a woman could explain.

bergt wrote:

Soon-To-Be Shoulder Rider,

we men are different kind of - I prefer bigger women, I like more heavy ladies than light ones. I have been lucky and I carried 100 kg lady (is that 220 lb?) 15 minutes and that was one of my best moments in my life what I remember rest of my life especially woman had skirt on. I want to feel there is adult woman, not any small girl so under 60 kg is too less for my taste. 190 lb = about 80 kg is perfect in my taste. I'm myself big man, also rather tall. I don't like very fat women, +150 kg because these are not sexy anymore if we talk about outlook now.

Bergt

Around 70 kg is absolutely my limit. Normally the ladies I carry, have between 50 and 70 kgs. Bit more than 70 kgs is real torture and I can not stand for long. I am just not that strong that I could do it for long.
So I admire mren who are able to carry also heavy female riders.