Ultimate shoulder rides

Ladies, my wife to-be, from Japan, was never a totally beautiful voluptuous blond like Heidilinde Wagner in the recently posted Webshots.com photos showing a Russian man shoulder carrying three different women, one a beautiful Russian gal, one a not so described younger cutie, one Heidelinde Wagner, but my wife-to-be kept me dating her through the mail and across the ocean while she lived in Japan and I attended San Diego State University from 1977 though 1980 where I was tempted by beautiful Southern California beach babes. We have been married for twenty-nine years since then. She still rules ME best when she rules like "Isabella Black'' rules "Jacob."

Thank you Sam for your thoughts. Altough most of it wasn't new it was still interesting, e.g. about your lovely wife.
Regarding Kristen Stewart, she is truly a girl that would be fantastic to have on shoulders and I believe she had no problem with being carried (there are several other pics piggyback, craddle) that proove it. But if I would have to take a guess then I would say that Jakob was the one who intialized the shoulder ride. I think it was rather his idea then hers. It seems obvious that there are more guys then us in this community who would like to give her a ride, some maybe when looking at her even  - like me - thinking of almost nothing else then lifting her and carrying her around on shoulders.
That girl that I spent a week with this summer is actually quite similar to her. I do like always think about her when I look at a Kristen Stewart pic. And I had her seven times on shoulders within four of those days which was a true pleasure.

Hi, Sam


Nobody likes pain. Not even masochists. But pain is often accepted, or chosen, to a certain extent, as a way to satisfaction... YOU accept some pain, Sam, when You carry Your beloved rider as long as you can, as fast as you can, not to show Her how strong you are, but mainly to please Her, even if it costs you some pain in your muscles. You accept that pain, and you even relish it, because very often, you will love to carry a "nice" Lady on your shoulders probably more than many of your riders will love to be carried ! You will love to be Her pony, to spare Her efforts, to let Her enjoy the sight, or have a chat with a co-rider, while you, my friend, you  will just keep watching your steps, save your breath, and ignore that growing pain down there in your calves, or on your shoulder muscles ... I'm sure that it is what you feel, and it is exactly what I feel too, and it is certainly what most of our friends of this board feel ...

Now, before you agree to shift on the "horse mode", you want to be nicely requested to do so ... Sam ! Being nice and gentle, being smart and shrewd, is the usual way of Women to obtain what they want from men ! They 've been doing it very successfully for God knows how many centuries ! We, men, are violent and authoritarian, but they are soft and smiling, and it works very well. Even when they could resort to autoritarian methods, they usually prefer to act soft and smart, for a start, that's their nature, I think .

I would not want to try and change that ! First, I could not change it, and, more importantly, I love Women as they are, and pray God they stay so ! I am masochist enough when I am used as a horse, that makes me happy, just as any other one on this board. Now they may ask me gently or not, they may ride me nicely or in a tough way, the key point foe me is that I am Her pony, that She is comfortable, that I get tired for Her, that I suffer for Her, and that all this makes us both very happy ...

Like you, I think, Sam ! Because we are both masochists somehow, more or less, but we both are .. Aren't we ?

Equidum

Equidum,

I agree with almost all that you write, that I will get tired and sore to please her out of love and devotion. But, the moment she kicks or whips or tries to even put on spurs, I am done with her. She insists on anything I object to or find disrespectful I tend to warn once and after that with one more infraction she is gone. She strokes me with a whip and I will place her under citizens' arrest and prosecute her to the fullest extent of the law. She will have been informed of all of this before hand. If she will not accept all of this then my ride is too good for her and some other personality type will have her.

Sam,


We all have our <different> limits ... You wish to be treated like a horse, but your limit there is that you don't want to be whipped, or spurred ... Nothing wrong with that ! And, as Louie pointed out, as I also suggested, Women don't spontaneously resort to violence, so your limit won't really decrease the number of your potentiel happy riders !

As for me, I would accept to be whipped, as "normal" riders do when "normally" riding "normal" horses, because I think it would me feel even more as a pony, but, in fact, I've never been beaten by any rider ... My story was a fiction on this point, as I already mentioned , I think !

Between you and me, I believe there are a huge lot of similarities, and only one point of difference.

But I would really like to be put to the test !!!

Equidum

Sam There is nothing wrong with a little encouragement-it might be verbal-if that gets the rider nowhere then he or she has to resort to something a little stronger-it might be a whip or spurs.
This is the same as a rider would treat a real horse-in racing I have yet to hear a jockey in the Derby say to his mount-I say old chap could we have a little more speed please.

This scene of Isabella Black is of a film or is only a image?

Dear Equidum,

In my opinion:
The human ridee is never inferior to the human rider due to being the ridee.
The rider is never superior for being the rider, just privileged, even if the rider is allowed to dominate and rule.
The ridee is being a wonderful human being for giving such a gift of love and this gift should be respected.
To whip the ridee is to disrespect the gift from the ridee.
The inferior one is the one that disrespects the gift and always insists on being served and on never serving.
A wonderful ridee is too good for such an inferior one. See next posting.

The true measure of how good we are is how we treat those we have no use for and those at our mercy who can not fight back. If Stacy Westfall can ride a horse very effectively without using a bit or whip or spurs then a woman can shoulder ride a man in the same manner. Stacy is superior to many for doing this. So would such a woman who shoulder rides her human horse be. These horses love to stay with Stacy. Many a human horse would love to stay with such a shoulder ridress. Stacy may shoulder ride me once I convince her, her husband, and my wife that both marriages will remain honored. If Stacy ruled with whipping the horse, the horse would fear her and stay away. So would I.

Hi, Louie


Your description is stunningly accurate, Louie ! Of course you should have added that Sam is by far the worse of us, but I understand that, as an admin, you must try and keep some balance in what you say ......       
( Sam ......: Its not true ! )

More seriously,  I also totally support your comments, Louie. I'd just like to say one more thing for Sam, as regards this inferior/superior issue ... : Of course no one is, by nature, superior or inferior. We may be tall or small, skinny or fat, clever or retard, male or female, black or white, rider or ridee .... But none of these can make us neither superiors nor inferiors ...... Except by consensual agreement ...: The superiority of my rider is in my mind, as well as my own inferiority, btw. Maybe the rider will think alike if She is a sadistic, or a Feminine supremacist, but for the both of us to be happy, it suffices that I create and believe in the reality of that gap between Her and me, and, even more importantly, that She enjoys the game ...

Well ... Sam, this topic seems to be nearing the end ... But I'm confident that, very soon,  we'll find  something else to argue about .... Otherwise,  Louie would be devastated ...

Equidum

The basic answer is -we all like to be controlled-either as equidum prefers-a masochistic hard ridden woman or in the case of Sam-a quiet dressage rider.
You pays your money and takes your choice