Ultimate shoulder rides

I think I understand. Dogs respond to coming to you when called because they like being rewarded by being petted. Killer whales and seals do tricks at the command of the human in exchange for being rewarded with a fish. Your boyfriend gives you nice shoulder rides for the reward of you occasionally sitting on his face.

So congratulations, Hong. You are a man-traineress. You want to be a man-traineress. Men often need to be trained. Really. Ask most women. (Of women never do need it or get it. If you want shoulder rides or to scissor hold his neck, you need to sit on his face.)

There. You know what one guy thinks.

movieyou2003 wrote:

I am writing this because I finally find a strong boyfriend who is willing to carry me any time I want, I ask him to be shirtless, and he would, and he enjoys lifting me on his shoulders, but he also enjoys something else, like he always ask me to sit on his head (face) and so on, I don't like those, I like shoulder riding and headscissors (I know most guys don't like to be headscissored) but not much about sitting on his face, he let me do whatever I want to do to him basically, but apart from riding on his shoulders I have to sit on his head sometimes, do you guys understand that?

Hong

Hi, Hong


I think Sam already gave most of the answer to Your question ! However, You might understand from his mail that Your boy friend is requesting You to sit on his face as a PAYMENT, as a REWARD. And it may be  partly true . But usually there is something more about it, I think it is never ONLY a reward,  never ONLY  a payment .

When Your BF offers You shoulder-rides, he is offering his strength, his pain for Your pleasure, he wants to elevate You, put You above everything, as high as a Goddess if he could, while he will be straining and suffering
underneath You ... And You like it, it seems to me

Now he asks You to sit on his face ... It is just another way to elevate You, to put You ABOVE ! For him, it's another way to offer You a ride ! He is no longer offering himself as a beast of burden, he is suggesting that You put the "vilest" part of Your body, Your ass, on the "best" part of his person, his face ... It is the same process as in SR : Humbling himself and elevating Your beloved person.

Please, don't be shy on that, little Chinese Princess ! Try it, and You will most probably discover another world of pleasure ! You may also try to further explore  Your BF's psychology and find out that he has so much more, so much more to offer for Your pleasure ! It seems to me You re a Goddess for him, use him, abuse him, he will most certainly love it and be grateful ! Happy Chinese Princess !!!

Dear Hong:

It has been said that he who humbles himself shall be raised. This is in the Christian Bible. Maybe Lao Tzu, Confucius, Gautama Siddartha, or Mohammed said something similar. Maybe it is written in the Torah too.

Maybe he finds your rear end to be sweet and delicious. (Guys are strange. Ask most gals.)

May you continue to have him enjoy pleasing you. May he receive the same from you too. Then more harmony and joy will prevail. Sometimes you rule. Sometimes he does. This is part of my understanding of the ying and yang symbolized on the flag of South Korea.

May you continue to enjoy many shoulder rides and scissor-holds.

Wishing  you a Happy Marriage and many future happy shoulder rides, Liz.

If you ever want our help on ways to avoid marriage problems and to cure them, we are willing to help you how we can. I would have it in emails off of this website. Mine has been in trouble before but I have managed to make it a happier one again. Most couples think their marriage will never be the one in trouble until they run into issues not previously considered.

I am sure these two elders who like to comment on my opinions and comments can help much too as can their wives who reportledly have been married longer to them than mine of twenty-nine years has been married to me. Yes, mine can help too if she is willing.

Best wishes,

If properly handled, a good horse will never rebel against his rider. If properly managed, a good husband-horse will never raise a problem to his Mistress ... Now, what is a "good management" as regards  husband-horses .... Sam has his ideas... I have mine ... Liz has Hers .... I'm confident they are the most appropriate !