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| Sure, I take any chance I get | 58% - 27 | |||||
| Yes, but I wouldn't tell my gf / wife about it | 21% - 10 | |||||
| Only if I get permission of my gf / wife | 13% - 6 | |||||
| I'd never take anyone else on my shoulders than my girl | 6% - 3 | |||||
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If you get the opportunity to give a girl or woman a shoulder ride, would you take that chance or would you take into account that she could be jealous about that, even if she is somewhere else? I am looking forward to hear your honest opinions...
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Hell yeah! I'd carry another woman with pride!!
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INTERESTING!!! i just started dating and became boy/girlfriend some months ago, and I was thinking in this kind of situation in a concert or something like that lately, but i think that even if i get her permission, she would not like it at all...
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Yes, I would.
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carryrman wrote:
INTERESTING!!! i just started dating and became boy/girlfriend some months ago, and I was thinking in this kind of situation in a concert or something like that lately, but i think that even if i get her permission, she would not like it at all...
I believe you are right carryman. I think the majority of girls wouldn't like it, after all it is a quite intimate physical contact especially in Brasil where girls are more likely barelegged as e.g. in Austria (it's raining here right now for days, grrr), but seriously, I think this is interesting to think about. Shoulder riding is quite a strong desire in all of us in this group, it is part of us, right? So the question is, is it ok if we give rides to other girls if - of course - we know we can keep it just with the sr and wouldn't go any further? Even more, some girlfriends / wifes do not like to ride (or not anymore) but the shoulder riding interest is still inside us. Looking forward to see more participation about this. ![]()
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I would first get my wife's permission and permission from the other gal's man.
In my opinion, some people see shoulder rides as part of romance and even something that encourages sex in the future between the ridress and the "horse."
To me, shoulder carrying a gal can be totally erotic but it does not lead to romance any more than waltzing with her.
I have always stayed loyal to my wife and know that your ladies would be safe shoulder riding me.
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Sam, there is no doubt you are a true gentleman and you treat your wife with much respect. Now, you say you would ask her for permission. Have you been in such situations? Does she give you permission for a sr? You are right that the close contact that you have during a sr with the woman on your shoulders might lead to further desires and some might even take that step. Personally I see it like you though: I enjoy the sr but treat it as if I would dance with that woman. I wouldn't cheat on my girl.
However, let's say you are at a concert or event. There would be the opportunity to lift a nice woman on your shoulders. I guess you wouldn't take her on your shoulders when your wife isn't there. But even if she would be and give you permission do you skip the chance if the other woman's man would not be there to be asked permission? Wouldn't you concede the decision to that woman herself if she would agree in the ride or even ask you by herself for assistence? Is your decision still dependend then on a person that isn't there?
I never left out a chance for that reason since I know it is simply a shoulder ride I give to the girl, nothing more.
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Louie,
In all honesty I would have to say that in my shoulderriding days if given the opportunity I would have put a lovely young lady on my shoulders. By doing this it would not have lessend my love and respect that I have for my wife but it is something that I would have to do because of the love that I have for carrying ladies on my shoulders. As I stated years ago this has been with me since I was about 9 years age and time has not abated that desire. I thought that eventually I would outgrow those types of feelings and the weirdness associated with it but it never did. Thanks to Scotty and this group I finally realized that I was not alone
blakjac29
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I think it is natural that most of our wives/girlfriends would not appreciate if we ask for permission to carry another woman if they know us well enough...
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Nick wrote:
I think it is natural that most of our wives/girlfriends would not appreciate if we ask for permission to carry another woman if they know us well enough...
True. I actually expected the votes to be like they are. It makes sense.
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You said: "it is something that I would have to do because of the love that I have for carrying ladies on my shoulders. As I stated years ago this has been with me since I was about 9 years age and time has not abated that desire".
Then, you've wanted to carry ladies on your shoulders since you was about nine years old.
I am agree with you because my riding dreams (being ridden by women) started when I was a child (I was ridden by a girl when I was six years old).
blakjac29 wrote:
Louie,
In all honesty I would have to say that in my shoulderriding days if given the opportunity I would have put a lovely young lady on my shoulders. By doing this it would not have lessend my love and respect that I have for my wife but it is something that I would have to do because of the love that I have for carrying ladies on my shoulders. As I stated years ago this has been with me since I was about 9 years age and time has not abated that desire. I thought that eventually I would outgrow those types of feelings and the weirdness associated with it but it never did. Thanks to Scotty and this group I finally realized that I was not alone
blakjac29
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Ride,yes-Carry,no
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I would hope she was there ready for her turn!! Or watching after being knocked off due to poor fighting.
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as a rider, if I meet a nice man and he is willing to take me on shoulders, I would ask my boyfriend for a permission, and my boyfriend will usually allows me because it is just sr and nothing more, and if my boyfriend wants to take other girl on his shoulders he has to get my permission and usually I willl allow him, (and I will want to watch it).
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I like this procedure.
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I take any chance i get.
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sure i love riding others girls on my shoulders what's so wrong about it
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alice sry to ask you this question if it's perosnal don't answer me.if a man at about 60 years old comes into you and asks you if you would ride on his shoulders,will you ride? although he is old
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blacky wrote:
alice sry to ask you this question if it's perosnal don't answer me.if a man at about 60 years old comes into you and asks you if you would ride on his shoulders,will you ride? although he is old
Hi blacky.
it is depend in how manly and strong he is, I think if man 60 years old offer me, He has to be manly and nice personality and getelman, I will ride on him.
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