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Hi everyone. I 've just discovered this site and i want to share an experience.
I am 29 years old from italy, 180cm x 70 kg and i love riding on shoulders of other men. My best experience so far was about 3 years ago. There was this guy at my gym, very tall and muscular, classical gym head, fun guy but always showing off his muscles and so on. Of course i wanted to ride on his broad shoulders but didn't know how to. One day we met during an outdoor concert, there were some shoulder rides going on and i asked him if he could lift me. In no time he raised me up on his burly shoulders. I rode him for about 40-45 minutes in the end. He was so strong and moving with the music all the time.
I wish i could have another experience like that again...
What about yours longest/best ride experiences?
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Ciao ma te di dove sei? Quanto sei alto e quanto pesi? Ti piace portare o essere portato?
Hello to you, but where are you? how tall are you and how much you weigh? Like lead or be led ?
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musclelover wrote:
Hi everyone. I 've just discovered this site and i want to share an experience.
I am 29 years old from italy, 180cm x 70 kg and i love riding on shoulders of other men. My best experience so far was about 3 years ago. There was this guy at my gym, very tall and muscular, classical gym head, fun guy but always showing off his muscles and so on. Of course i wanted to ride on his broad shoulders but didn't know how to. One day we met during an outdoor concert, there were some shoulder rides going on and i asked him if he could lift me. In no time he raised me up on his burly shoulders. I rode him for about 40-45 minutes in the end. He was so strong and moving with the music all the time.
I wish i could have another experience like that again...
What about yours longest/best ride experiences?
Ciao abbiamo le stesse passioni io conosco qualcuno che ti puo interessare... se vuoi
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ciao leonessi ma tu sollevi ?
leonessi93 wrote:
Ciao ma te di dove sei? Quanto sei alto e quanto pesi? Ti piace portare o essere portato?
Hello to you, but where are you? how tall are you and how much you weigh? Like lead or be led ?
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If I am remembering correctly, my longest shoulder ride as an adult was a little over 2 miles while sitting on my ex husband's shoulders before we were married. He had taken me on a long hike, much longer than I was prepared for. It was partially on a bridle path in some woods. I was quite tired and pretended to twist my ankle and insisted that he would have to carry me. I assumed that he would carry me in his arms but he wanted to carry me piggyback which was unacceptable to me. He grudgingly squatted down as a compromise and I stepped over his neck and sat on him. I expected him to take me back to our group gathering but he continued going in the direction we were walking. I was rather angry with him so when we came to a hill, I insisted that he carry me to the top before turning around. He grumbled at this and it made me even angrier and I wanted to punish him by burdening him. He had implied that I was heavy which annoyed me because he was always showing off his strength to try to impress me and other people.
He wanted to stop and rest a couple of times but I insisted that he keep going and told him it was getting late and I wanted to get back to my friends. I was beginning to enjoy making him carry me and I also enjoyed sitting up there on him because I'm only 5ft 2 in tall and the view from that high up was interesting. I kept pushing his head forward and down so I could sit more comfortably on his shoulders but he kept raising his head making me grip him with my legs to stay on top. I was not at all happy with him and slapped him a few times and he took his revenge by walking rather heavily making me uncomfortable. I told him he was a weakling and that I should look for a better boyfriend and that's when he started kind of jogging, making me bounce on his shoulders and hold on with my hands and legs to keep from falling off.
It was hard enough sitting up there because he was sweating and my cotton shorts were even getting wet. I was really quite angry at that point and squeezed his neck with my thighs causing him to get dizzy and fall down on his hands and knees. He wasn't choking but his circulation was being cut off and I almost made him pass out before I released him. I just sat on his shoulders and back a while longer and I slapped his head again telling him to behave and carry me the way I wanted. When he recovered I made him lift me from where he was and he struggled a bit to stand up . When he was upright I pushed his head down again and this time he kept it there and let me sit and ride more comfortably. In spite of the problems I had, I learned that I could control him and I didn't break up with him as I had planned to.
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musclelover wrote:
Hi everyone. I 've just discovered this site and i want to share an experience.
I am 29 years old from italy, 180cm x 70 kg and i love riding on shoulders of other men. My best experience so far was about 3 years ago. There was this guy at my gym, very tall and muscular, classical gym head, fun guy but always showing off his muscles and so on. Of course i wanted to ride on his broad shoulders but didn't know how to. One day we met during an outdoor concert, there were some shoulder rides going on and i asked him if he could lift me. In no time he raised me up on his burly shoulders. I rode him for about 40-45 minutes in the end. He was so strong and moving with the music all the time.
I wish i could have another experience like that again...
What about yours longest/best ride experiences?
hi i m into riding and i had also my longest ride it was 30 minutes shoulderiding in a park and then 20 minutes more piggyback this guy is 192 103 kg massive muscled and very smart guy!
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I was at a 2 hour concert this summer and I carried a wom for over an hour, broken up into four segments of 17 min, 20 min, 20 min and 10 min each, w about 10 min breaks between segments
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Ciao Italyrider!
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Hey Audrey...
When was your last shoulder ride experience ??
Thanks.
Audreyb wrote:
If I am remembering correctly, my longest shoulder ride as an adult was a little over 2 miles while sitting on my ex husband's shoulders before we were married. He had taken me on a long hike, much longer than I was prepared for. It was partially on a bridle path in some woods. I was quite tired and pretended to twist my ankle and insisted that he would have to carry me. I assumed that he would carry me in his arms but he wanted to carry me piggyback which was unacceptable to me. He grudgingly squatted down as a compromise and I stepped over his neck and sat on him. I expected him to take me back to our group gathering but he continued going in the direction we were walking. I was rather angry with him so when we came to a hill, I insisted that he carry me to the top before turning around. He grumbled at this and it made me even angrier and I wanted to punish him by burdening him. He had implied that I was heavy which annoyed me because he was always showing off his strength to try to impress me and other people.
He wanted to stop and rest a couple of times but I insisted that he keep going and told him it was getting late and I wanted to get back to my friends. I was beginning to enjoy making him carry me and I also enjoyed sitting up there on him because I'm only 5ft 2 in tall and the view from that high up was interesting. I kept pushing his head forward and down so I could sit more comfortably on his shoulders but he kept raising his head making me grip him with my legs to stay on top. I was not at all happy with him and slapped him a few times and he took his revenge by walking rather heavily making me uncomfortable. I told him he was a weakling and that I should look for a better boyfriend and that's when he started kind of jogging, making me bounce on his shoulders and hold on with my hands and legs to keep from falling off.
It was hard enough sitting up there because he was sweating and my cotton shorts were even getting wet. I was really quite angry at that point and squeezed his neck with my thighs causing him to get dizzy and fall down on his hands and knees. He wasn't choking but his circulation was being cut off and I almost made him pass out before I released him. I just sat on his shoulders and back a while longer and I slapped his head again telling him to behave and carry me the way I wanted. When he recovered I made him lift me from where he was and he struggled a bit to stand up . When he was upright I pushed his head down again and this time he kept it there and let me sit and ride more comfortably. In spite of the problems I had, I learned that I could control him and I didn't break up with him as I had planned to.
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Trigger: If you are asking when was the last time I rode on a man's shoulders specifically to be carried, it was last fall. I engaged in "horse-play" with several boyfriends and male friends, sitting on their shoulders for short periods and carried for short distances. In July of this year, a boy tried to lift me on his shoulders at a garden/pool party. It was something of a sneak attack from the same boy who tried to lift me last year and failed . He didn't have any better luck this time and since he wedged his head between my legs without asking permission, I sat down on him ,putting enough of my weight on him to make lifting me a greater challenge. He's an especially skinny boy who isn't very bright and doesn't know that such behavior is inappropriate . I don't know if any of these instances count in regard to your question. I wish there was something more interesting to report but I simply don't have anything else.
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Well Audrey if you speak of Real life experience of riding.
They are like this only.
Even all my riding exp have been paid ones.
But I think you can get a good horse if u search here and if ur in mood of getting one.
Thanks
Audreyb wrote:
Trigger: If you are asking when was the last time I rode on a man's shoulders specifically to be carried, it was last fall. I engaged in "horse-play" with several boyfriends and male friends, sitting on their shoulders for short periods and carried for short distances. In July of this year, a boy tried to lift me on his shoulders at a garden/pool party. It was something of a sneak attack from the same boy who tried to lift me last year and failed . He didn't have any better luck this time and since he wedged his head between my legs without asking permission, I sat down on him ,putting enough of my weight on him to make lifting me a greater challenge. He's an especially skinny boy who isn't very bright and doesn't know that such behavior is inappropriate . I don't know if any of these instances count in regard to your question. I wish there was something more interesting to report but I simply don't have anything else.
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Audreyb:
You sound like a nice dominant rider. Have you ever been as bossy with anyone other than your ex husband? Especially with the thigh squeezing.
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guero:
I suppose I could be called "bossy" in most of my relationships.
I'm the owner and CEO of a small supply business an I have to assert my authority in that role on a daily basis.
But in my everyday social life I am assertive in general and have always been so. My ex husband was a special case simply because I normally chose men who let me dominate them and he was the exception in the beginning.
I hate to give the impression that I'm akin to those dominatrix's wearing leather lingerie in fetish videos. I don't cater to such desires unless I simply feel like doing so. That incident of squeezing my ex husbands neck wasn't something I planned in advance either. I discovered that I could squeeze someone that way when I was angry and punishing my younger brother when we were both children. I learned that it was called scissoring much later on and it was always a spur of the moment thing. I'm not a wrestler or someone who engages in fighting for entertainment except as a spectator.
The boy who tried to lift me at the garden party actually amused me more than he annoyed me and being a small as he was it would have been inappropriate to squeeze his skinny neck so I just sat down on him and kept him in place to teach him a lesson. Needless to say that a boys pushing his head between an adult woman's thighs and under her dress without permission is not acceptable behavior.
The "slave" that my friend loaned me for those rides in the woods was a different matter and I didn't squeeze his neck more than was required to stay on him. I wasn't really assertive on the first ride because in spite of the fact that he was obeying his "master" (my friend) he was performing a service in carrying me and had he not demonstrated his dislike of his task by making me uncomfortable I would have just sat on him and let him perform as he agreed to.
On the second occasion , while following the advice and example of my friend I was much more assertive and "bossy". I took control of him as any rider sitting on a real horse must do and made him behave with almost complete disregard for his comfort. I believe that anyone assigned to any task that they agreed to take on, regardless of that person's motivation, should perform that task or service or never agree to it in the first place.
This also confirmed my view that a carrier should always perform in compliance to the rider and perform as much like a beast of burden as practicality and reason dictates.
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My longest shoulder ride experience ever was given to me by an extremly tall and muscular Dutch guy. He was 218cm tall and about 170kg with huge muscles. The ride lasted just over 1 hour with him walking up and down the street with me on his shoulders. It was an amazing hour being carried on the shoulders of this giant!
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Audreyb:
I like those different situations. I absolutely love the idea of having a female boss on my shoulders while she takes inventory of shelved items or changes a lightbulb. I've had a few attractive female bosses over the years and I wanted nothing more than to be required to carry them on my shoulders for different tasks. I understand that would never happen because of work-related rules but I can always fantasize. Also I've really only had one or two riders over the years who have been bossy while most have been nice. My ideal scenario would be hanging different decorations in a house with tall ceilings while someone assertive made me lift them up. They would get on by demanding, "get down I'm getting on your shoulders," and after I started to get tired and started to shake, they would squeeze me with their thighs and say "hold still!" in a moody voice. The sassier the better, and I agree the leather/dominatrix thing is pretty stupid. I'd rather she just be wearing some nice shorts and a tank top. Also, have you ever gotten on someone's shoulders using no words at all? Simply by just motioning for them to kneal down or by coming up from behind them and climbing on? My favorite is always the lack of permission.
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SJB, where can I find that tall guy?? Want him on shoulders!! OK, I going to shake and wobble under this massive guy, but its a Dream for me to have a giant like him on sholders!!!
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guero:
When I was very young I sat on a boy's shoulders without his permission because I was angry with him and trying to get him down on the ground. He was a friend of my younger brother and he was on his knees at the time .It wasn't because I was trying to ride on his shoulders so I don't know if that is what you are asking.
I think I mentioned sort of "ordering" a boy to carry me in a chicken fight at the beach when my boyfriend wasn't there and I wanted to be involved in the chicken fight. Unfortunately he was really skinny and could barely stay up as well as being uncomfortable under me and I lost very quickly.
I have climbed on a few boyfriend's shoulders without asking of course but they didn't really object.
It was just playing around and not an activity of any kind.
As for work situations, I have 11 women and 3 men working for me and during inventory, one of the girls had one of the men lift her on his shoulders to record the serial and parts numbers on the higher storage shelves. The step ladder that was normally used to reach these shelves was being used elsewhere. To be honest I didn't consider it inappropriate at the time but rather a practical solution. She was in charge of the man carrying her and without going into details, he is a rather useless person who I employ as a favor to a friend. In retrospect it might be inappropriate since she was his boss during the inventory, being in charge as she was, and he didn't really have a choice. But as I said, it was practical and at least he was doing something useful.
It would certainly be inappropriate for me to have been sitting on him since I'm his actual employer.
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Hey Audrey
Why don't you remove the step ladder from your office...
and make this guy Unofficial Step Ladder...
Audreyb wrote:
guero:
When I was very young I sat on a boy's shoulders without his permission because I was angry with him and trying to get him down on the ground. He was a friend of my younger brother and he was on his knees at the time .It wasn't because I was trying to ride on his shoulders so I don't know if that is what you are asking.
I think I mentioned sort of "ordering" a boy to carry me in a chicken fight at the beach when my boyfriend wasn't there and I wanted to be involved in the chicken fight. Unfortunately he was really skinny and could barely stay up as well as being uncomfortable under me and I lost very quickly.
I have climbed on a few boyfriend's shoulders without asking of course but they didn't really object.
It was just playing around and not an activity of any kind.
As for work situations, I have 11 women and 3 men working for me and during inventory, one of the girls had one of the men lift her on his shoulders to record the serial and parts numbers on the higher storage shelves. The step ladder that was normally used to reach these shelves was being used elsewhere. To be honest I didn't consider it inappropriate at the time but rather a practical solution. She was in charge of the man carrying her and without going into details, he is a rather useless person who I employ as a favor to a friend. In retrospect it might be inappropriate since she was his boss during the inventory, being in charge as she was, and he didn't really have a choice. But as I said, it was practical and at least he was doing something useful.
It would certainly be inappropriate for me to have been sitting on him since I'm his actual employer.
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Audreyb:
That's awesome, if the girl who was in charge was cute then I'm sure he loved it. It would also depend on both of their sizes in regard to how cruel it was. If he was 6'0 and she was 5'2 it would seem harmless but if she was 5'11 and 170 while he was some skinny kid with buckling knees it would be heavenly for me but pretty mean for anyone else. Still any scenario like that is one I would love to encounter. If you ever need help taking inventory late at night I would be happy to lend a pair of shoulders.
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guero:
The girl in that case has a pretty face and I suppose some men might find her cute though I think most would see her as on the heavy side. I don't know her weight but I might guess at perhaps 160 lbs. or perhaps a little more. She is about 5ft 2 in and I know this because she is only a little shorter than I am when I'm wearing heels. If you prefer that he was burdened by her, I'm quite sure he was. He is about 5ft 9in tall and probably 145 lbs. I was very busy that day and was only in that section for about 10 or 15 minutes so I can't tell you how much longer she was sitting on him. I can say that he certainly didn't like being her ladder/pony. As I said, he is virtually worthless and the girl in charge and riding his shoulders dislikes him as most of the ladies here do.
He couldn't be trusted to count correctly or right down the part numbers correctly so if he wasn't beneath her he would be standing there doing nothing. There was nothing indecent involved. The girl was wearing shorts and a jumper top since climbing up ladders to dusty shelves made the normal office attire rather impractical. Perhaps she took her time and sat on him longer than she needed to but I wouldn't fault her for that. He is rude, obnoxious and worthless and if she had a little fun at his expense I wouldn't mind at all. In thinking about it now, I could have put my 260 lb. Accountant in charge of him in that section. My accountant is gay and he and the worthless one hate each other. If he sat on him instead of the girl, he would be in a lot of pain.
But of course I'm just musing about such an arrangement. I wouldn't want my insurance rates increasing because of that.
As you might imagine, I would have been less forgiving if I was on his shoulders since I have to pay this man every week. It's not at all the same as I would regard a carrier performing the same service for me .
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Audreyb:
That's a pretty awesome story, her thighs must've looked very thick around his neck. Did she lock her legs around his back so he couldn't put her down? I wouldn't put someone as heavy as the accountant on him, but if the girls continue to shoulder ride him it could be nice for everyone. being in an office full of ladies who want/need shoulder rides on a daily basis does sound like heaven. Even if they don't like me as a person at all but just feel as though they can use me as a ladder it would be awesome. It seems unlikely that they would want to sit on his shoulders if they actually hate him though. Every time I've seen it happen it has either been because the woman is playful and likes shoulder rides or because she has a sense of entitlement and thinks she can just be up there. I suppose like in the case of my older sister I would often carry her to be nice when her feet hurt but it seems pretty rare that they would do it if they couldn't stand him. If they did it just to be malicious I suppose it would make sense.
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guero:
I wouldn't know if the ladies here would like riding on someone's shoulders. I can't imagine my asking such a question would be appropriate to my position and until recently, riding on someone's shoulders as an activity in itself wasn't something I considered. Such things were always spur of the moment.
I'm not sure about riding someone to be malicious or how others would feel about it.
I was somewhat malicious when I had my ex husband carry me that time I mentioned. I wanted to at least burden him because he made me angry but since he was also my boyfriend at the time, I felt entitled to sit on his shoulders. I know several of the ladies in my office dislike the worthless one quite a bit. I could only guess whether they would sit on his shoulders to cause him pain by burdening him and of course such a course of action would be out of place in the workplace.
Actually I probably shouldn't have allowed that girl to use him the way she did during inventory but I was busy and I wanted the work done. She chose her method of getting her job done and used her underling in the manner she chose. I don't know if she enjoyed it or why she enjoyed it if she did. Her position in sitting on him varied . At some points she put her feel behind him as you said and sometimes her feet were hanging. Maybe she liked making him strain or maybe she was indifferent. As far as I'm concerned she at least managed to put him to some use and probably got more useful work out of him in a day than I have since I hired him.
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Audreyb:
I understand that it's not something to just bring up among certain crowds. Spur of the moment is always best but there are only certain situations in which it could occur regularly. Is there a shoulder riding situation you have not tried yet that you would like to? I've always wanted to have a professional dancer or cheerleader on my shoulders.
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I haven't really considered any specific scenarios in regard to riding on someone's shoulders as a specific activity. There was usually a purpose in sitting on someone's shoulders , a game such as chicken fighting in my teens or because other girls were riding on boy's shoulders etc.
I mentioned the time when I was touring south of the border and a man semi-seriously suggested hiring one of the local peasants to carry him on his shoulders and when my feet were killing me, I honestly wished that I had followed his suggestion. I think that half way through the tour, if the man had negotiated such an arrangement I would have hired one of them too. The peasants that I saw are very poor and used to physical labor anyway and if the man who suggested it could be carried, anyone I hired would have a much easier time with me sitting on him than with the man.
Perhaps some people would think it's wrong to exploit the peasants in their poverty that way but my feet hurt so badly that I don't think I would care.
There was a post here a while back about some almost slave labor that harvested salt in Korea and might be rented by tourists who would be carried by these slaves. I considered such an arrangement and how I might feel about it. I'm still not sure how I would feel or even if the story was true. But in considering from a practical standpoint , since the custom would have been established and acceptable I would likely go along with it. The "slaves" would have someone sitting on their shoulders whether it was me or someone else. It would be their lot in life and their condition would be what it was whether I was the one being carried or another tourist.
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Audreyb:
You seem to be pretty indifferent about shoulder rides in general, do you actually enjoy them? I like my riders to be bossy but I also love knowing that they love it as well.
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guero;
I wouldn't say I am indifferent to riding on shoulders, but I'm inexperienced compared to others here and I'm exploring both the possibilities and my feelings. As I said, I tend to be assertive and "bossy" in most aspects of my life and I expect anyone serving me in any capacity to perform to my satisfaction whether I hire this person or they choose to serve for other motives.
For example, if I had hired one of those peasants to carry me on that tour as I mentioned, I would have expected the same obedience as I would of an employee working in my office in regard to the task he was hired for. The peasant would be my beast of burden ,taking my directions while I was sitting on him just as a donkey would be. Perhaps even more so for the Korean salt slaves because they would be rented property who had tourist sitting on them for their livelihood and couldn't resign and had no option to disobey.
But a voluntary carry is a different matter. He can quit regardless or his motives for being my carrier. While I fully expect him to obey and sacrifice his comfort to provide for mine, I have to be mindful of the fact that he chose his position and can choose to end his service at no cost to himself.
I can feel that I own him while I'm sitting up there, make demands that I expect him to obey and be indifferent to his discomfort in the process. But he can stop and I can't really force him to do anything. So in such cases my being 'bossy' is limited by his willingness to let me. Obviously some of the male riders here might force their carrier down and sit on his chest to make him obey but I couldn't do that with anyone strong enough to carry me. So it's not indifference but rather reality.
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