Ultimate shoulder rides

m2ichaela:

I couldn't really drown him even if I wanted to. My ex was more than strong enough to throw me off if he was really in  danger.  But as I became more annoyed with him , the more frequently I allowed myself to think about drowning or smothering him etc. entered my mind.   Don't misunderstand, I never really  intended to kill or really harm him.  It was just a way of amusing myself  and drowning him in the pool was an easy fantasy option since I was already sitting on him.

m2ichaela:

No, I didn't consider restraining him in the pool or a lake . I did  tie him at home  sometimes because sometimes I just didn't want his big hands touching me when I was sitting on him.

As I said, actually drowning him was never a serious consideration but it became more frequent in my fantasies  as I  became  more annoyed with having him around all the time. This became only a little more amusing a  fantasy when  some of my friends watching from  poolside  laughingly  shouted things like "Sit on him and don't let him up for air!". I knew they were joking  except  for a few who really disliked him and even they didn't expect me to really  drown him. Still they often laughed when I let him up coughing water and trying to  catch his breath.

m2ichaela;

when i was getting near the end of my marriage I imagined killing my ex in quite a few ways but it was of course just fantasy.

I had him tied up in a pre-nuptial which included all of his property and half of his income, which at the time was quite substantial. It was iron clad and remains so to this day.
so while I would have enjoyed sitting on his head in a pool or watching someone else sit on it and drown him I never considered actually ending his life in reality.

But beside the potential penalties for murder , I  managed to enjoy tormenting him for several years by taking him money and property and since the amount  he was required to pay me for support was a fixed amount based on his income at the time of the divorce, he was nearly completely homeless when he lost  his job and had to take  a deep cut in his salary in the job he had next.

My ex doesn't have to deal with me pushing his head under water while I sit on his shoulders anymore, but I still have my foot on his neck and I'm very unforgiving in regard to his required support payments and while I rarely see him over the past 2 years, I'm still metaphorically sitting on his back financially while he lives in a tiny studio apartment  and can hardly afford food let alone  dating other women.

m2ichaela:

I wouldn't say that I "threatened" him but implied that I would  and could end him.
My ex was (and in some ways still is) obsessed with me  and submitted to thing like bondage which of course took away his  strength advantage.

for an example, he would wake up some mornings and find me on his chest and restrained to the bed posts ,usually just sitting there while I  talked to him about how helpless he was and how I could  suffocate him if I decided to  replace him with one of my lovers.

I never threatened him with a weapon except a pillow that I pressed down on his face lightly  for a few seconds. I think you can image the scene.

m2ichaela:

I made my ex lift and carry me whenever I felt like  it.
He wasn't  completely trained when I married him  but as I was getting ready to divorce him, I have fun tormenting him and he always submitted because he knew I would get everything in the  divorce because  the pre-nup was literally iron clad.

My two  male  cousins were my lawyers and they loved taking him to court  when he challenged any part of the  pre-nup  and he even had to pay them when he tried.
Since they  hated him  and they were  my cousins, they worked for me free of charge.
In a manner of speaking, my exe's choice was to have me on his back or my two fat lawyers .

I know that on some level my ex knew I wouldn't kill him, but he could never be completely certain and it was fun just sitting on his chest with him tied down and helpless and not really sure if  I would really hurt him.

m2ichaela:

I could usually coarse  or shame him into carrying me just by challenging his strength.
His male vanity could  make him comply  to anything I demanded even when he knew what I was doing . you might think he was stupid but it really wasn't the case. He was obsessed with me and I know that in spite of what appeared to be a male dominated home , his mother had indoctrinated him to submitting to  women and feminine authority.

But the most  fun I had was after the divorce  when he was unemployed and had been evicted from his tiny studio apartment.
I allowed him to move back into my home and sleep on a tiny cot in my basement laundry room.

I loved flaunting my lovers in his face and even related false stories of things I did to my lovers that I never did for him.  They were almost all lies since I dominated my lovers  who were mostly submissive men. But it killed him to think   I was submitting to them and performing these sexual acts.

Needless to say, he submitted to my demands  just to keep a roof over his head while he tried to find work and performed repairs and housework for me.
During that time I asked hm almost sweetly to carry me on his shoulders or let me sit on his back  when he was in the right position and he complied  with  some irritation  because he didn't want to risk putting me in a bad  mood.

m2ichaela:

Sometimes I pinned his arms under my legs  but I preferred to tie his arms behind his back or to the legs of my sofa.
I couldn't really keep his arms pinned  with my legs and  sometimes he would struggle  when I slapped him  so often that he didn't care that I would withhold  sex if he fought back.

That was in the early days before I had him mostly trained and cowed.
My ex really is very strong but hated it when I tormented him with face slaps and he hated having me sitting on his chest. He often complained of pain when I sat on his chest to long but I loved sitting on  his big chest and  I would remind him that hurting him  was  the idea:).

I have   pinned other guys like that who really couldn't get me off  them, but none of them were very strong.

m2ichaela:

Amanda was demanding and self  centered.  She once mentioned attacking him for some slight and sitting on his chest while punching him.
I  don't know if she ever got to the point of riding him against his will  other than playfully   as dating or married couples sometimes engage in. She wasn't  nearly as heavy as she is now before the divorce  but she was  really trying to train him  into a  docile  and obedient  husband.

Amanda's husband was just an average  guy  and not nearly as strong as my ex.  If she sat on him  now, whether on his back or chest, I don't think he could bear her current weight.
I honestly don't know if Amanda could  physically beat up her husband when they were still married but she is quite  confrontational with just about  every man she has to deal with.

One of the reasons I  chose her in the fantasy scenario is that a short time ago she had an verbal altercation with a man and she was very angry afterward. I was remember  Amanda saying to me "I just wanted to sit on him and pound on his face".

m2ichaela:

I can only speak with any authority on my own success  in training my ex and not Amanda's failure.

One thing that worked for me was that I started training my ex while we were still dating and I worked on his ego and vanity.  I broke him down a piece at a time, finding chinks in his armor  and  working on things  that I notice his mother had already instilled.  As I said, he was  as much addicted to me as he ever was in love with me.

Amanda started working on her husband after they were married , dominating and dismissing him a little more every day and unlike me, she allowed him to actually catch her with other men. I had made it clear to my ex that fidelity on my part was not  in my nature but Amanda's marriage and  the "vows" were traditional, while she really wanted  the freedom that I  had.
But rather than  fight  her, Amanda's husband  started  stepping out with other women himself.

Ultimately things turned  physical  when her ex  caught her with another man in their home and Amanda  and her boyfriend beat up her husband and humiliated him as well.

Amanda's husband got a large percentage of  their assets  in the  divorce and humiliated her  in the eyes of her family.
From that point on she started to hate men  and mistreated the few men she did date  until those guys rejected her and she hated men even more.

You might be right. If she had sat on his head and put him in his place  from the start, she  might have achieved  her  goal , assuming that was her goal to start with.

m2ichaela:

No, not in public  and we didn't sit on my ex's head .
On the day I   told  my ex that I was divorcing him and evicting  him from my house (I owned the house before we were married),I had three men and a Amanda  there for support and  to insure my safety.

My ex grabbed me by my shoulders and shook me for less than a second when Amanda and two of the men attacked  my ex and got him on the floor. One of the men sat on his right arm and another sat on his legs while Amanda knelt on his left arm. Amanda  wasn't quite as big as she is now and my ex threw her over his body and almost got away.
The third man was my friend Wayne who jumped onto my Ex's torso and helped get his left arm pinned down  where she  sat on it  while  Wayne  put his knees on my ex's shoulders while straddling and firmly sitting on his chest.

My ex hated Wayne already and that sentiment was mutual. Wayne just sat there slapping my ex's face with stinging slaps while smiling down and enjoying  inflicting that indignity.
I let Wayne  slap him for a short time  , then asked him to stop  but to sit right where he was while I walked around , standing just inches from my  ex's head  and smiled at his  predicament before tell him that I would call the police and have him arrested if he didn't leave  quietly  when my friends got off him.
My ex was much stronger than Wayne and I knew  that Wayne would be his first target if he got violent again , but I rather enjoyed looking at him down there with four people sitting on him so I asked them to keep him down  at least until he calmed down. After about five  minutes he was just laying there looking defeated but calm  and I asked my friends to let him up so he could leave.

In retrospect , I guess I missed the opportunity to have Amanda sit on his head or at least sit on it myself  and maybe I should have.      But I didn't want to delay getting rid of him any longer  or doing something to enrage him to the point that he became violent again.

m2ichaela:

No I didn't step on my ex husbands face  but I did stand close enough to him  that he had to look up my skirt . It's not that he hadn't seem me far more intimately since we were married after all.
But I enjoyed towering over him like that as if he were an insect .

He was helpless down there with 4 people sitting  on him at that point and his head was about 2 feet from the sofa and I sat on the arm of the sofa and I think I remember nudging his head with the toe of my shoe as I told him I would call the police if he misbehaved and that my  friends would be witnesses.

My friends were all  amused  sitting on him like they were because  he was normally intimidating, especially Wayne sitting on his chest smirking down  at  my ex's face  like a schoolyard bully perched on a beaten victim.
I really wish I had taken a  photo of all that.