Ultimate shoulder rides

JohnnyKay · 2013-12-17 15:10:58

Hey guys, wanna share an experience

I go alot to clubs and have improved alot my skills with woman (I used to be really shy a couple years ago, nowadays I've been a huge success with chicks). It came across my mind that there's actually no bigdeal in my fetish (like, it's not really dirty or scary, is it?) so I started being outspoken about it with the girls I've been with, the results: two of them actually thought it was pretty creepy (and my reaction was of "I don't give a f*") but the absolute rest of them didn't give a damn either and actually thought it would be cool to try new stuff out (which made me pretty happy, lol). As you guys may know, we live in a really small world (well, at least my social circle isn't colossal here in my city), girls talk about guys with other girls. So the weirdest thing happened - some girls I've never seen before with whom I started conversations with at clubs and wherenot said to me things like "the guy with that fetish", "the guy that like carrying girls" etc; although it is weird I tried controlling myself and following what I generally do, so I've been reacting like "yeah... so?"
My technic has been the negligency (after showing them I'm a cool guy I just don't go after them anymore and wait for them to come, make them think I don't really care if they come or not - works alot) - I talk normally to them and sometimes they just comeback and ask me about the fetish, I discovered some girls actually enjoy it alot

I could only conclude one thing: girls don't like creepy stuff - and what actually might make our fetish look creepy is the way we end up treating it. I started being outspoken about, a lot of girls know about it, and I actually joke about it and treat it like it's no bigdeal and that I don't really give a f** if some find it strange or not (in the end, I don't lift girls randomly nor try to bring them home exclusively to lift'em - I only do it when they ask me to and believe me, it's becoming more often). Try it out guys, nothing to be ashamed of

equidum · 2013-12-17 17:08:04

Congratulations, JohnnyKay! I wish I would have done it when I was your age !

checkmateguy · 2013-12-17 18:24:57

To JohnnyKay I'd say: nothing ventured, nothing gained. In other words, if you don't make a move or do something positive, nothing is going to happen. All I'd add too to what he wisely writes is that he could 'normalise' his fetish of liking to give shoulder rides to females by telling them that he finds it a great way to build up his physique. Most females are all too aware that guys like to build up their muscles, and giving females shoulder rides would be one plausible way of doing that. One advantage of telling them this is that females are more likely to volunteer to be given a shoulder ride. Not only that, they would probably like to use that reason (i.e. so you want to build up your muscles, eh, Johnny?) as an excuse to get astride Johnny's shoulders and enjoy a stimulating and hopefully satisfying ride.

Nick · 2013-12-18 10:47:02

JohnnyKay, thanks for sharing us your thoughts and interesting experience.

mountmeforever · 2013-12-18 18:09:04

That's a great technique JohnnyKay. I have found the more open and casual I am about telling people I like to give shoulders rides, the more people in my circle see it as a fun activity and I'm getting some nice requests for rides as well. I think this coming summer, I will be popular because I mentioned to a lot of girls that I would be pleased to hold them on my shoulders at rock festivals and I would even buy the tickets if they let me know they were interested in a particular festival. Based on their positive responses, I think I will be in high demand this summer. ha ha

Ultimate shoulder rides

#1 2013-12-17 15:10:58

Being outspoken about my fetish is turning out ok

#2 2013-12-17 17:08:04

Re: Being outspoken about my fetish is turning out ok

#3 2013-12-17 18:24:57

Re: Being outspoken about my fetish is turning out ok

#4 2013-12-18 10:47:02

Re: Being outspoken about my fetish is turning out ok

#5 2013-12-18 18:09:04

Re: Being outspoken about my fetish is turning out ok

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